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is it realistic to leave a list of stuff and who i would want it to go to? like, an unofficial will of sorts? not sure if it's reasonable for me as a 19 year old to create a legal will, especially when i don't have anyone i know who would casually sign it, but i do have valuables that i would like to leave to certain people. would it be weird if i wrote out a long list? i'm a collector for certain fandoms, so it would be stuff like who gets my collections, or my art, or even my devices and passwords to my online accounts. not sure if it's strange to leave a list like that, since it's more of a sentimental value to me than a physical thing one
 
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I would say thats shouldn't really pose an issue, I would just suggest leaving this note to someone who you know will respect your wishes
Otherwise the note wouldn't really have a point if its just tossed away
 
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If you trust the people in your life, it seems perfectly reasonable to leave a list of wishes. Thoughtful too- that you were thinking about them.

I suspect you can probably make a will from the age of 18. I was probably 19 or 20 when I made my first will. I was sure I would die young. My latest will was countersigned by people in their office. It's not exactly cheap though- if you get a Solicitor to do it.
 
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