Help I’m lonely and lost x

[BFishy]

It has been two years for my friend, and certain things will trigger her and I need to try to calm her down. And let her know it's all right and I will keep her safe.

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

The police forward everything like evidence & statements etc to the Crown prosecution service who look at that information and decide if it goes to court or not, the police say you have got evidence so it will go to court for a judge to decide on sentencing.

Its hard but try to have faith that the evidence speaks for itself and justice will prevail.
If you need any help, support or information through any of it we are all here for you

Yeah I appreciate that so much, I just wanna be me if you get what I mean ?

 

[BFishy]

This is a very loving and supportive and safe place here at SS

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

This is a very loving and supportive and safe place here at SS

I was really frighted at first and was unsure of what everyone would say or think of me

 

[BFishy]

You are a survivor, you are truly strong.You just need to be patient and becoming yourself will come with time.

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

You are a survivor, you are truly strong.You just need to be patient and becoming yourself will come with time.

It just really sucks as I've been struggling with my appearance and loosing loads of weight and gaining it all again and making myself sick as I can't see me anymore but I'm going to the eating disorder clinic and seeing my psychologist about it

 

[BFishy]

Nobody judges here. Nobody chooses to become a victim. And it proves your strength, seeking out help. You are safe and welcomed and cared for here. There are many here who have your back.

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

Nobody judges here. Nobody chooses to become a victim. And it proves your strength, seeking out help. You are safe and welcomed and cared for here. There are many here who have your back.

Thank you for everything, just know I can come here and express my feelings and thoughts means the actual world to me !

 

[Smokey]

It might not feel like it now but you will get back to being you, just dont push yourself too hard too fast

 

[BFishy]

Stress can or will trigger eating disorders also. You have many troubles right now. The easiest thing to do. Instead of tackle them all, fight work on one at a time to prevent overload.

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

Stress can or will trigger eating disorders also. You have many troubles right now. The easiest thing to do. Instead of tackle them all, fight work on one at a time to prevent overload.

Yeah, I'll try that as I have been trying to fix everything all at once

 

[BFishy]

And pick away at them taking baby steps
It will be alot less stressful

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

It might not feel like it now but you will get back to being you, just dont push yourself too hard too fast

Thank you!

 

[BFishy]

I'm glad that you were courageous enough to come here for help.

 

[NobodyKnowsssss]

I'm glad that you were courageous enough to come here for help.

Can't thank you and everyone else who has spoken to me tonight

 

[BFishy]

Anytime. I suffer with many issues myself, but I find my peace in helping others.
I am glad I could be here for you.

 

[Justhere]

Are you safe? Do you still feel in danger? You need to be around other people to help you through this.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

I'm so very sorry. Rape is such a destructive thing. I can't even imagine how you must be feeling. anything I could say sounds hollow to my own ears.
I guess you have to let the system do its job, but that doesn't help how you feel now. I agree with the self-defence thing. If you can bring yourself to engage in something like that, it might help you win back some feeling of control.