Venting i hate the way i look

[kazatte]

as the title says, every time i look into the mirror, i hate myself more and more. all i can think is that i'm so fucking ugly. objectively, i have a nice body, but it feels like that's the only good thing about me. my haircut feels awful, i'm 1000000x uglier without glasses because my eyes look too small and my face is too pale and my eyebrows are too wrong, etc; i just really fucking hate the way i look. it doesn't help that i abhor my personality as well. i feel so, so horrible about myself and i don't know what to do about it because in order to make myself look even the tiniest bit prettier i kinda have to suck it up and look at myself in the mirror LMAO

 

[R. A.]

Going on a limb since you made this a thread; feel free to ignore if you don't want a contrary opinion...
of course what matters is how you feel about how you look, but:

• Get a new haircut..?
• Sexy glasses is a thing
• Lots of people like fair skin. Do you not tan?
• Eyebrows are the hair of the face (i.e. also can be "cut" aka styled)

 

[kazatte]

Going on a limb since you made this a thread; feel free to ignore if you don't want a contrary opinion...
of course what matters is how you feel about how you look, but:

• Get a new haircut..?
• Sexy glasses is a thing
• Lots of people like fair skin. Do you not tan?
• Eyebrows are the hair of the face (i.e. also can be "cut" aka styled)

oh no this is actually nice to hear even though i don't think anything is gonna help me feel better about how i look, at least not rn. but thank you so much :)

tbh i have tried out many haircuts but i feel like they all look horrible on me because of the structure of my face; same with the glasses. i feel like everything i try won't work because i fully believe i'm just naturally ugly. i CAN tan, but it's hard for me to tan on my face, and i can't try to noticeably tan right now because any drastic changes i make to my appearance are monitored by my mother. she also makes me get my eyebrows done and they do look good, just not on me. they look different from each other, like one seems to grow differently. i can't see myself looking better unless i post one of those tiktoks asking people how i can make myself look prettier LMAO

 

[princexhhn]

i dont have much to add except for that i hope you're alright and beauty standards is a joke

 

[R. A.]

Something tells me the fact that

any drastic changes i make to my appearance are monitored by my mother.

might have something to do with this...we don't often think we're ugly for no reason; or maybe it's a comparison thing or the inability to attract a desirable partner. I'm sure the right combination of stylings is out there to make your outer self mach the soul's purity

 

[kazatte]

Something tells me the fact that

might have something to do with this...we don't often think we're ugly for no reason; or maybe it's a comparison thing or the inability to attract a desirable partner. I'm sure the right combination of stylings is out there to make your outer self mach the soul's purity

thank you :) this is very sweet of you. i do really want to start trying out different fashion styles even though i think im too ugly for them LMAO + i want to dye my hair the minute im able to. so hopefully that'll help me

i dont have much to add except for that i hope you're alright and beauty standards is a joke

thank you so much :) they really are such a joke LMAO idk why i can so confidently tell other people this but not myself. but ill be okay dont worry