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How often do you leave the house?

  • Everyday

    Votes: 29 32.6%
  • A few times a week

    Votes: 30 33.7%
  • Once a week

    Votes: 9 10.1%
  • A few times a month

    Votes: 7 7.9%
  • Once a month

    Votes: 7 7.9%
  • Never

    Votes: 7 7.9%

  • Total voters
    89
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lastch

Student
Oct 2, 2024
100
I rarely leave my house these days due to my anxiety and was wondering if anyone else was in the same boat. I've no job, college or friends. I just sit in the house all day suffering from ptsd flashbacks and having panic attacks. I've been this way for ten months now since I was hospitalised.

Sending hugs to anyone who can relate, I know how lonely it is 🫂
 
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Zoro1029

Member
Mar 15, 2025
87
I go into the office 5 times a week so pretty much that only. I dont mind as the weather is getting better now but wish I was back to hybrid
 
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S like Siren

S like Siren

Enlightened
Apr 29, 2021
1,579
too little and since too much time now...and it's a problem.
if I want to improve I absolutely have to change this right away and go out often because I need it to try to live and not just breathe and suffer every day.
I understand your pain...hug you🫂
 
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getoutgirl

getoutgirl

<3
Mar 17, 2025
396
I have responsabilities that drag me out of here a couple times a week, else I'd probably stay. Vacations are usually like that. This christmas I cloistered and watched like 50 movies.
Also really sorry you are getting through that. I know that state well and it can make the house feel both like the only safe place in the world and a prison that's digesting you. It's dark and lonely and it gets awful. So I feel you, sending you bigger hugs back <3333
 
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The Unanswered Q

The Unanswered Q

Student
Jan 1, 2025
120
At most two times a month. I always end up getting mocked whenever I leave the house, so I usually only leave when I have to.
 
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DeletedUser108474

DeletedUser108474

Member
Nov 29, 2020
56
Just to get food or take my son places
 
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JoysoftheEmptiness

JoysoftheEmptiness

Experienced
Sep 10, 2024
234
I used to be very housebound, but I'm trying my best to get out alot more, taking my dog for a walk, going to the shops, or going to the pub for a beer, been lucky in going to a charity where I attend workshops and classes on looking after myself, and recently started a crafts class, my mobility isn't good so that's an added problem i'm struggling with.
 
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maneose

maneose

天天天国地獄国
Sep 10, 2023
141
school monday-thursday, work friday-saturday(once a week, or twice), sometimes sundays. sorta forced myself to get used to only going out for school since my mom is very overprotective and i can't drive so my transportation to places is limited.
 
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sad_dog

sad_dog

Member
Apr 1, 2025
10
used to leave daily but recently I've been lucky to get out once or twice a week
 
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Outofoptions1

Member
Feb 22, 2025
83
Since my breakup 3 months ago, I only go to work and that's it. I have 0 motivation to do anything else. Weekends and evenings are spent inside and I order all of my food via delivery or don't eat at all.

Going to work 5 days a week takes a massive toll on me and I've been postponing/cancelling appointments unless they're virtual.
 
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DamagedGirl

Member
Sep 19, 2024
6
Maybe a couple of times per year. Anyone else like that?
 
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Nothing Left

Nothing Left

🧿
Sep 6, 2024
209
Maybe once every three months.

And even then it's usually to take out the trash (my dad usually does it) or check the mailbox.

Rarely do I actually travel anywhere, but I'm hoping that will change.
 
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Unhumanly.

Unhumanly.

Human(less) - already quit life
Feb 24, 2023
372
My job don't require me to go to an office building, so I rarely go outside, I go out if necessary, or if I just want to go out to a nice place
 
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BeyondOver

BeyondOver

It's all so tiresome
Apr 4, 2025
55
once every two weeks ig
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
12,269
Asides from taking the bins out, very rarely. I work from home and get shopping delivered. Last year, I think I went 8 months without going anywhere.
 
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Sad_Autistic_boy_101

Sad_Autistic_boy_101

When I die, you'll love me.
Nov 19, 2019
455
I very rarely leave the house. It was never my intention for this to happen but when my father figure CTB, my support for my Autism got taken away as I lost the person who was advocating for me. I have spent 6 years in my bedroom with no professionals listening to me. They've finally started to after a new social worker but even now I barely leave the house.. Maybe once a month but sometimes that's just sitting in the car.. to properly go outside can be a couple of months.
 
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worthless123

Hikikomori
Apr 24, 2023
52
Haven't left the house all year. Outside is for normal human beings.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
2,267
I have a full time job so I have to leave home for that. Even on my days off I need to go out for chores and I also just like being outside. Even if it is just sitting out front of my house or taking a quick walk up and down the street.
 
slightoverlooked

slightoverlooked

Specialist
Dec 27, 2023
301
im very social and extroverted so very often. when im in a depressive episode it can be that i dont leave my house for 1-2 weeks but other than that i meet up with friends a lot plus go to uni.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
12,830
It depends - a few times a week if I have to buy things. I stay at home most of the time.
 
bankai

bankai

Enlightened
Mar 16, 2025
1,921
I go out every day. Either the gym or the office or buying groceries.
 
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sakakap

Member
Mar 26, 2024
39
i leave the house pretty much every day to walk our dog and i'd say it definitely helps me feel better, i tend to spiral if i don't leave the house for days on end
 
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The_screaming_dawn

The_screaming_dawn

Member
Dec 12, 2023
27
While I may not exactly like the societal part of life I value nature far too much to part for long from it, so I tend to go outside just to look at sunsets, the stars, the bugs ect.
 
other-ghost

other-ghost

rotting
Apr 5, 2025
74
Pretty much almost everyday. I'm an extrovert, i love to socialize with my friends or just simply go somewhere by myself.
 
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CatLvr

Enlightened
Aug 1, 2024
1,342
Only when I absolutely have to. I have everything I need delivered once a month, but I have to go to the feed store every couple of months. Then there are the regular pain management appointments and the trip to the pharmacy for my meds. I feel put upon by having to go out those three times. Ugh.

Dealing with people is just such a drain. Oh ... And I meet my son once a week for lunch or dinner. That doesn't count, though. I ENJOY that.
 
MiraiShisen

MiraiShisen

Student
Jun 15, 2023
192
I am extremely tired and lack energy ,I can walk barely 10 minutes and my muscles are tired and my legs begins to shake :( I have not been outside more than year by now and I wish I could , I used to go for longer walks, to visit nature all by myself to ease from all the problems I have, I miss it very much its like part of my soul is outside and I can't meet myself there, it was one of the last things I used to enjoy, now I am all alone living in my head without anyone to share any thoughts or talk , I wish I had better social life when I could , I am not really introverted I just have not meet a right people back when I could live normal life. Its sad slowly dying all alone and my hope is suicide
 
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22yearsbroken

22yearsbroken

Lost in the dark... with no sign of light
Feb 15, 2025
368
Collect my scripts at the chemsist once a month.. shops across the road for bits i mean like 5 meters away so 🤘 but my carer does most of that and then i get a taxi to and from my paino lesson twice a month other wise why lea e my safe little bubble.. i only open the curtains when im forced to ..apparently sunlight will fix me ...🤣
 
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Grav

Elementalist
Jul 26, 2020
817
Usually 1/week but that's more due to work from home and not many places to go.
 
Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,384
I go out everyday just to prove that going out everyday doesn't do shit for my well-being. Things are exactly the same for me whether I go out or not.
 

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