
tobby rabbit
it's easier to die and I'm lazy
- Jul 6, 2023
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Seconding this. Well writtenMost "mental illnesses" are, by and large, social constructs with fluid definitions determined by consensus of the prevailing culture. They are designated as illnesses because they are considered responsible for producing dysfunctional or socially objectionable behavior within the context of a particular society. Certain behaviors observed in women, that weren't even necessarily exclusive to women, were classified as "female hysteria" despite nowadays being considered relatively normal, and had historically subjected women to being placed in insane asylums or even lobotomized. Human behaviors run a spectrum and the designations of what behavior is "normal" and what behavior is "ill" is arbitrary.
I don't consider someone mentally ill unless they are literally non-functional in a physiological sense.
So yes, everyone who is aware of suicide as an option has the right to decide for themselves if suicide is a valid outcome for themselves. That's self-determination.
I've heard this theory before but I don't really understand it. What mental illness would fall into that category? I know mine limit my functioning a lot without having to do with my interaction with society.Most "mental illnesses" are, by and large, social constructs with fluid definitions determined by consensus of the prevailing culture. They are designated as illnesses because they are considered responsible for producing dysfunctional or socially objectionable behavior within the context of a particular society. Certain behaviors observed in women, that weren't even necessarily exclusive to women, were classified as "female hysteria" despite nowadays being considered relatively normal, and had historically subjected women to being placed in insane asylums or even lobotomized. Human behaviors run a spectrum and the designations of what behavior is "normal" and what behavior is "ill" is arbitrary.
I don't consider someone mentally ill unless they are literally non-functional in a physiological sense.
So yes, everyone who is aware of suicide as an option has the right to decide for themselves if suicide is a valid outcome for themselves. That's self-determination.
I've heard this theory before but I don't really understand it. What mental illness would fall into that category? I know mine limit my functioning a lot without having to do with my interaction with society.
I see, interesting. It's just that this isn't the case in society right now. Not everybody is mentally ill. And thus people who differ from "the norm" will still struggle immensely.In summary: "If everyone is mentally ill, then no one is mentally ill."
In other words, things like mental illness, suicidality, deviant behavior, or psychotic tendencies are behaviors that are only considered "wrong" or "an illness" through context and comparison with so-called "non-ill", "non-deviant", "non-psychotic actors", aka people lacking in these behaviors.
Let's use a "classic" mental illness as an example: everyone's favourite, schizophrenia. Despite the idiosyncratic nature of schizophrenic behaviors, modern psychology has deemed that schizophrenia has a demonstrably repeatable and observable pattern of behaviors with which to diagnose. In some way or another, all schizophrenics are considered to behave similarly.
To demonstrate, let us simply reverse the paradigm. Let's say that the entire human population consists of a large majority of schizophrenics with the "usual" schizophrenic symptoms: visual and auditory hallucinations, asociality (lack of desire to form relationships), thought dissociation (believing that your thoughts are not your own), and so on. Their society, culture, and the socialization of their children revolve around their acceptance of these things as "normal" behaviors.
Now, insert a symptomless human into that society. They don't see or hear anything they cannot physically perceive. Instead of being asocial, they want to form relationships with everyone. They think that all of their thoughts belong to them.
Who, in this situation, is going to be considered mentally ill? And by whom?
If all of the medical professionals of a society run by schizophrenics encounters a symptomless human, isn't it true that the symptomless human by definition would be considered an aberrative, dysfunctional deviant?
I see, interesting. It's just that this isn't the case in society right now. Not everybody is mentally ill. And thus people who differ from "the norm" will still struggle immensely.
I get the theory and it makes sense but the theory is just not reality to me.
I don't want to dismiss it so I'll give a little example to explain my thoughts. I amongst other things struggle with dissociation. If the whole world experienced that frequently, it would be normal. But they don't which is why I have different needs than most. And it's also partially why I'm suicidal and why some people might not be.
Or am I getting it wrong here?
Aaah I get it! Thanks so much for explaining, I'd been wondering about it for a while.You're not wrong; my assertion that "most mental illness doesn't exist" is a normative statement ("How I think the world should be"), rather than a positive statement ("This is how the world is"). In other words, it's just my personal beliefs and how I see the world; I don't consider myself mentally ill, but I'm sure someone else who looks at my behavior or even considers the fact that I'm suicidal to be a clear sign of crippling mental illness.
In a world of "normality", there are certainly people, like you, whose needs and behaviors run beyond the boundaries of the spectrum of normality, and thus experience hardship and ostracisation as a result. You and these people are disadvantaged in the current iteration of society, there's absolutely no denying that.
Just for me personally, I refuse to allow myself to be called "mentally ill" because such a label is so often used as a dismissal. "You're not sad, you're just mentally ill." "You don't have any reason to be depressed, you just have a chemical imbalance in your brain." I want people to know and understand that I consider my despair, my perspective, and ultimately my decision to CTB to be perfectly valid and rational given the circumstances I am in. And ultimately, to dispel the "myth" of mental illness is to garner greater acceptance. None of us are sick; we just have different needs, needs that deserve to be accommodated, rather than denied and isolated and stigmatized, as much as any normal person's needs have the right to be accommodated.
I can't give a definitive answer because I've had severe depression for many years, but I haven't seen a doctor. If I go to a doctor, I know that I am recognized as mentally ill because such depression is considered a mental illness in society. But I don't think that this is a disease because I have a terrible life, and vice versa, an inadequate perception of reality would be the absence of depression - since, for example, laughter and joy at the funeral of a loved one is inadequate. It's the same in my situation - when everything is so bad, then not having depression will not be normal. In any case, I think that anyone should be able to commit suicide.Most "mental illnesses" are, by and large, social constructs with fluid definitions determined by consensus of the prevailing culture. They are designated as illnesses because they are considered responsible for producing dysfunctional or socially objectionable behavior within the context of a particular society. Certain behaviors observed in women, that weren't even necessarily exclusive to women, were classified as "female hysteria" despite nowadays being considered relatively normal, and had historically subjected women to being placed in insane asylums or even lobotomized. Human behaviors run a spectrum and the designations of what behavior is "normal" and what behavior is "ill" is arbitrary.
I don't consider someone mentally ill unless they are literally non-functional in a physiological sense.
So yes, everyone who is aware of suicide as an option has the right to decide for themselves if suicide is a valid outcome for themselves. That's self-determination.
I can't give a definitive answer because I've had severe depression for many years, but I haven't seen a doctor. If I go to a doctor, I know that I am recognized as mentally ill because such depression is considered a mental illness in society. But I don't think that this is a disease because I have a terrible life, and vice versa, an inadequate perception of reality would be the absence of depression - since, for example, laughter and joy at the funeral of a loved one is inadequate. It's the same in my situation - when everything is so bad, then not having depression will not be normal. In any case, I think that anyone should be able to commit suicide.