Books that helped you through difficult times

[Agroboy]

I was reading Parerga and Paralipomena, and that book made me think more about my life regarding relationships — not necessarily romantic ones, but friendships and connections with other people. He talks about the "hedgehog's dilemma."


The hedgehog's dilemma is the idea that, just like hedgehogs in winter, people need closeness to keep warm, but if they get too close, they end up hurting each other with their spines. So they keep searching for the right distance: close enough to feel warmth, but not so close that they wound one another. Schopenhauer used this as a metaphor for human relationships. We seek intimacy, companionship, and understanding, yet our flaws, insecurities, pride, and habits can end up hurting the people around us — and ourselves.


That idea made me realize I needed a certain moderation in how I relate to others, a healthy distance both for my own good and for theirs, so that friendship could actually last instead of collapsing under too much intensity or friction.


Do you have any book in particular that made you reflect deeply and helped you in life?

 

[trashhologram]

Unseen: How I Lost My Vision But Found My Voice by Molly Burke. I listened it as an audiobook, it was read by her. I cried, I laughed. Her style of telling a story is phenomenal! And I love her sassiness