30+ peer support thread.

[U. A.]

Crunchy old fuck reporting in.

 

[kouna]

42 here. My bday is in 2 weeks.
Up to 39 my life was pretty good, but being betrayed and robbed by my business partner has turned my life a mess. The legal system can't really help with things either.
Most of it is my fault for not being cautious and blindly trusting him.
The past 3 months saw me losing my job, my wife and returning to my parents' house since living alone in my house (I'm a homeowner) was torture. I'll rent the house, which will help financially, however I'm totally anedonic, nothing gives me pleasure anymore, not sports, not alcohol and drugs and I've totally lost my will to work. I'm starting a new job with the beginning of the year but I couldn't care less. I want my divorce to end quickly and then it's CTB time.

 

[Xiaojiu]

This thread will always be active as long as there is at least one person posting. : )

Thank you for sharing! I'm sorry about your situation. You have wonderful preferences! I also love nature, mountains and forests. I started drinking tea recently. I love that as well. : )

Thank you! How do you enjoy nature? And what tea do you like to drink?
And what are your preferences for coping/distractions?

I can't hike anymore, so my husband drives me to the mountains and forests to cheer me up. I used to be a hiker and mountain climber, so dealing with the physical issues that have continued to worsen is heartbreaking and soul crushing for me.

 

[2minutes2ctb]

How do people go through their 30's ? Like seriously ? Life wasn't too bad until 30 but then… I'm sorry, I guess I was just not ready for this enormous pile of sh!t called life.

 

[bwonto]

43 here and a lot of these stories resonate with me. Thanks to all for sharing them.