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jeevasO-o

jeevasO-o

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Jan 15, 2026
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So, there was a terrible video from this YouTuber about this site. She spread missinfomation about us, and claimed "we kill people." "Encourage suicide" and "it's our fault some people died by suicide" "we could have saved them with kinder words instead of encouragement"
(the thread made about her before)

Generally she was very insensitive. Also she said most of us are "incels" / "women hater"... The video was uploaded like 13~ days ago?
SHE EVEN SAID QUOTE: "The creator has different sites, all not allowing women and are anti women. And The only site where women are allowed is a site that kills them." (Maybe not excatly same pharse but she did say just that!)


Thankfully the video is FINNALY GONE!! Yipee:D
I'm unsure if she privated it after the backlash of some, (and me especially lol) or if it got banned. (I reported it).

I also DIDN'T attack her, I told her why she should remove it and explained that she was insensitive, spread missinfomation and she just should leave us alone. She said something along the lines of "oh well I get more support than hate so I think this should stay up for the information purpose" and after that I just commented "yeah she won't listen to us. We gotta force it by reporting the video". (She also deleted some comments apparently allegedly)
I even told her how she's now talked about on here in a not so good way xD

[Edit: she also completely ignored our "recovery" forum (just mentioned it shortly) and didn't really mention people who got better from this site]
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[Edit 2: Okay, I didn't see her Community post. She DID take it down herself. But from what I read it was mostly only so people wouldn't find the site..]
 
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Always-in-trouble

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Jan 14, 2026
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So, there was a terrible video from this YouTuber about this site. She spread missinfomation about us, and claimed "we kill people." "Encourage suicide" and "it's our fault some people died by suicide" "we could have saved them with kinder words instead of encouragement"
(the thread made about her before)

Generally she was very insensitive. Also she said most of us are "incels" / "women hater"... The video was uploaded like 13~ days ago?
SHE EVEN SAID QUOTE: "The creator has different sites, all not allowing women and are anti women. And The only site where women are allowed is a site that kills them." (Maybe not excatly same pharse but she did say just that!)


Thankfully the video is FINNALY GONE!! Yipee:D
I'm unsure if she privated it after the backlash of some, (and me especially lol) or if it got banned. (I reported it).

I also DIDN'T attack her, I told her why she should remove it and explained that she was insensitive, spread missinfomation and she just should leave us alone. She said something along the lines of "oh well I get more support than hate so I think this should stay up for the information purpose" and after that I just commented "yeah she won't listen to us. We gotta force it by reporting the video". (She also deleted some comments apparently allegedly)
I even told her how she's now talked about on here in a not so good way xD

[Edit: she also completely ignored our "recovery" forum (just mentioned it shortly) and didn't really mention people who got better from this site]
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[Edit 2: Okay, I didn't see her Community post. She DID take it down herself. But from what I read it was mostly only so people wouldn't find the site..]
Too late for her, easy site directs have probably upped registration numbers a decent amount.
 
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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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"The creator has different sites, all not allowing women and are anti women. And The only site where women are allowed is a site that kills them."
She cooked tbh, but she got it wrong, that's Marquis the ex-owner, not our current admin.

Also she said most of us are "incels" / "women hater"...
Which is true, and it will remain true until the mods start banning incels.
 
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jeevasO-o

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Jan 15, 2026
82
Which is true, and it will remain true until the mods start banning incels.
I don't really think so? Sure they are some incels but I don't think that it's MOST of us here. I personally didn't see anyone acting like an incel here before
 
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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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I don't really think so? Sure they are some incels but I don't think that it's MOST of us here. I personally didn't see anyone acting like an incel here before
There are multiple threads of it daily, I guess you just haven't seen it. One misogynist or incel is too many regardless and the forum is quite clear on tolerating them because "we're all suffering here and we should be empathetic" (but I suppose we don't extend that empathy to the suffering women being made worse by the incel presence, I guess). The ex-owner is still the current owner of the most vile incel forum today, which has posts on raping and killing women every day, calling them subhuman, deliberately forbids women from entry, etc. He is still an "advisor" on here.
 
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Dec 10, 2025
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There are multiple threads of it daily, I guess you just haven't seen it. One misogynist or incel is too many regardless and the forum is quite clear on tolerating them because "we're all suffering here and we should be empathetic" (but I suppose we don't extend that empathy to the suffering women being made worse by the incel presence, I guess). The ex-owner is still the current owner of the most vile incel forum today, which has posts on raping and killing women every day, calling them subhuman, deliberately forbids women from entry, etc. He is still an "advisor" on here.
I haven't seen such threads.

It seems like there are some suicidal people on here who are heterosexual men and are depressed because they don't have a romantic relationship. I haven't noticed any misogynist threads. Also not all incels are misogynists and it doesn't seem right to equate them.

Can you provide some links of the misogynistic posts so we can know what you are talking about?
 
martyrdom

martyrdom

inanimate object
Nov 3, 2025
423
Also not all incels are misogynists and it doesn't seem right to equate them.
A man who is sad about loneliness is not an incel. A man who subscribes to incel ideology, which is misogynistic, is someone I consider an incel.

Can you provide some links of the misogynistic posts so we can know what you are talking about?
I will not post specific threads lest I be accused of publicly shaming people but I have personally responded to several if you want to look through my posts & a quick search of the site using any keywords like "incel" "blackpill" "femoid" "I hate women" and more should lend you endless results, they did for me.
It is also a long-standing problem that many people have voiced dissent about historically throughout the forum's entire existence.
 
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PI3.14

what is chaos to the fly is normal to the spider
Oct 4, 2024
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I don't expect others to understand what members here are actually going through. Also, it seems that any online space that isn't "pro-life", and perhaps aggressively so too, will automatically get labeled as a space that encourages suicide and whatnot.

Unless one has gone through hell themselves, they won't understand those who did and perhaps are still going through hell.

Although I wish for everyone to live a happy fulfilling lives, which is something I'm sure many of us feel too, however I'm fully aware of the difficulty of that, some might even say it's outright impossible.

Other than encouraging others to see if treatment can help them before taking a final decision, there isn't really much we can do, and it seems that although not all but many of us did or are seeking treatment already, what else a "pro-lifer" wishes us to do?
 
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catsalvation

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Sep 13, 2025
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She cooked tbh, but she got it wrong, that's Marquis the ex-owner, not our current admin.


Which is true, and it will remain true until the mods start banning incels.
Really? Wow... I'm surprised now. And did he create this forum with some nefarious reasons or is it not known? (I didn't watch the video.)
 
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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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Really? Wow... I'm surprised now. And did he create this forum with some nefarious reasons or is it not known? (I didn't watch the video.)
He's still an advisor on here, you can ask him yourself. He currently owns incels.is, though, which brings a lot of context to a lot of things about this forum after a quick browse.
 
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badatparties

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Mar 16, 2025
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He's still an advisor on here, you can ask him yourself. He currently owns incels.is, though, which brings a lot of context to a lot of things about this forum after a quick browse.
I just browsed it for a second and wow, i just lost my faith in humanity all over again. The place is a literal breeding ground for the worst of society and probably brewing the next Elliot Rodger type shooter. The site should be banned and the owner put in prison.

I'm thinking of leaving this site too now since that scumbag is an advisor here.
 
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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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I just browsed it for a second and wow, i just lost my faith in humanity all over again. The place is a literal breeding ground for the worst of society and probably brewing the next Elliot Rodger type shooter. The site should be banned and the owner put in prison.

I'm thinking of leaving this site too now since that scumbag is an advisor here.
I'm really glad you took the time to. Hopefully it also sheds some light on why I go so hard on incels on here.
 
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