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I want to be cremated but my family will bury mewould you lyke to be cremated, burryed or you dont care...
why u thynk they wont respect your wyshes?I want to be cremated but my family will bury me
I'm Nigerian and Nigerians don't believe in cremations cause they think your soul will be rotting in hell or some sh!t. older Nigerians are real superstitious people. I'm from a different generation.why u thynk they wont respect your wyshes?
You're so thoughtful. I never thought of it this way. I've been saying cremate me. I'll let them decide.I was thinking about that actually, I've been reading quite a few goodbye notes and wills and people always say what they want to be done with their bodies. I am very confused by that, actually.
After your death (natural or CBT), your body is an empty husk, it's not yours anymore, you don't live in it any longer. At that point, your body is a symbol for the ones left behind, a reminder of you. Your body is very important for their grieving process, for their closure. So I have decided to let my partner decide what he wants to do with my body. If he is angry, he can have it disposed of as cheap as possible, no funeral, no headstone, just dump me in a hole and cover it up. Donate it to science. If he feels he needs somehow to have a big goodbye with a huge funeral and invite everyone I ever knew (which will also be everyone who ever failed me and didn't hear me scream for help), with flower wreaths and headstone and a choir, then so be it. I just want him to be okay, I want the people that I love, even though they don't love me, to be okay.
u plan to ctb yn the forest somewhere?I would like to be left in a mountain or a forest, so the nature can feast on me, after all, i have taken too much from it.
sorry for the grammar my laptop keyboard ys screwed and y dont have that letterI would like to ask the OP why they're constantly misspelling their posts by replacing their Is with Ys.
Anyway, to answer your question, I don't really know what they'll do with my body. It wouldn't matter, cuz I'd be gone by then. I did, however, leave behind several documents detailing my decision to choose CTB. I had a phone call with my parents today, and while I vented about how life is going to be pointless, dry and boring from this point forward, I don't think they're convinced that I would actually CTB. They don't believe CTB is the answer. I'm pretty sure they don't actually get how thoroughly I screwed myself over. Well, whatever. They will soon.
Yup me too.The whole burial idea is over rated. To be honest it won't really matter to me at that point as I'll be dead. I'm kinda with Frank Reynolds on this one.View attachment 18496
you are lookyng good to meCremation? We don't do it here.
-Israel
But I don't really care what will be with my body after death, never liked it anyway.
ys that you yn the avatar ur hottttI wantes to be bureid but don't have the money so it looks like I'm going into the oven. I just hate picturing myself burning down to nothing but my mother had to wait work to care for me all these years so there's not enough money for a burial. I wouldn't even want a wake or funeral because I don't believe in that stuff and I wouldn't want people who didn't even care about me coming to look at my dead body.