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Do you care about who will find you?

  • don't care at all who will find me

  • don't want family/friends to find/see me

  • don't care when a stranger will find me

  • don't want to be found by anyone if it would be possilbe

  • hope my family/friends will find/see me

  • hope a stranger will find me

  • want everyone to see me when I succeded

  • I want the person/s I hate the most to find me

  • Other (feel free to tell us in a reply :) )

  • want a trained professional to find me


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heyy

heyy

Member
Jun 19, 2024
37
If you had the chance to control who will find u when you are not here anymore, what would you want?
 
Goosechan

Goosechan

I'm so tired
Nov 1, 2024
84
Missing the option for I want a trained professional to find me. I would like to CTB in an environment comfortable for me, but that would be I would be found, eventually. I wouldn't want anyone unprepared to find me. That can scar a person. Ideally police of something would be warned and find me.
 
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cohomology

cohomology

Member
Oct 5, 2024
51
Me too, I would like to message the police explaining what happened after I do it so they could mentally prepare themselves for it and bring someone qualified and ready to deal with it.
 
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heyy

heyy

Member
Jun 19, 2024
37
Missing the option for I want a trained professional to find me. I would like to CTB in an environment comfortable for me, but that would be I would be found, eventually. I wouldn't want anyone unprepared to find me. That can scar a person. Ideally police of something would be warned and find me.
thx for your advice!! <3
 
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nomoredolor

nomoredolor

Specialist
Sep 7, 2024
369
I'm planning on sending a scheduled email to my local PD to be sent out the day after. I'll leave the doors unlocked. Otherwise it would prob be my dad (he sends a check in text every morning without fail.) and I don't want him to find me
 
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PixelPlant

PixelPlant

smile, you’ve lived :)
Aug 15, 2023
128
no one.
 
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reyonrays

reyonrays

Death brings peace, the ultimate release.
Oct 27, 2024
74
I definitely don't want any of my family finding my body. i rather be found by someone else like a cop or someone from medical, strangers.

So my body will be taken care of before they get the call.
 
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sinfonia

sinfonia

Arcanist
Jun 2, 2024
478
bad poll, too many optons, too fuzzy. you have to narrow it down a bit, keep it short and simple. here's how you do it:

who dd you want to be found by?
*friends/family
*police/paramedics
*random strangers
*don't care
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,636
It's nothing to do with me as if I no longer exist then nothing can matter to me, this cruel, futile existence that only ever caused me to suffer will no longer be my concern and all will be gone instead. For me the only relief could ever lie in being permanently unconscious and to never exist again is all I wish for, non-existence truly is all I see as desirable.
 
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SA1994EC

Member
Jan 28, 2021
257
I don't have to be worried about family members or friends since I have none of them. I just want to disappear so it is best no one finds out my body forever. But if that is not possible, trained professional is second best, like the police or medical personnel. They are trained to deal with a situation like that so it is the least way to get anyone traumatized.
Regarding delayed messages, I am not sure if those are really secure. I am afraid they might get detected beforehand.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

I have finally found my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
5,796
I don't really care as I'd be dead
 
untildeathdousapart

untildeathdousapart

Member
Dec 2, 2023
33
I wish to be found by no one, but then again i feel like if my body was found it could bring closure to those closest to me. I'm not sure, it's a hard question.
 

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