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waitin2go

*click* noice
Apr 26, 2025
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Just dropping this gem here:
(Link in case below doesn't load: instagram(dot)com/reel/DFNlBHDo1XB/)
 
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beandigger404

beandigger404

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Jun 21, 2025
28
Can't stress enough how much I relate. "You can talk to me. I would rather know how you feel than worry because I don't know!" No, you do not want to hear my unfiltered thoughts and emotions. Even when I water it down my friends still get really weirded out and stressed. It's sort of dehumanizing and alienating that I can't talk to anyone about my feelings without their only reaction to that being "go to a psych ward". Hell no. I just want to be treated like a normal person with some issues. Not like an unfixable ticking time bomb. That's why I never really vent anymore. Learned my lesson the hard way. I hope therapy isn't the same if I ever get access to that.
 
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Rainbow Dash

Rainbow Dash

Member
Aug 11, 2024
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Wow... I can relate so much.

My parents when i was younger.
"Talk to use we wont judge just listen.
Blah blah blah.

When i talked and watered down to the point the deink is just water with a tea spoon of wiskey XD

Still act shocked, suprised, etc etc and never kept a word of their first statement....

Did judge, stare, get upset and play the victim card.... Yea you read that right.
They played the victim card....

"What you do hurts us" ......

Wow ok....

Im hurting you....
By being isolated. Un heard, un seen.. In my room alone not bothering anyone....

Anyway that was my little story when i was young :P

Ps... I did get hospitalised when i was little. Not related to self harm or anything of that sort.


Umm...

Whe i was in middle school i bit a teacher lol

Some jid punched me in my face and ran away to the hall way.

Naturally i chased him and teachet blocked the room exit with her hand.

I said "move or ill kake you move"
Well she didnt move and i kept my word.
I pushed her and she didnt move so i bit that hand and chased that kid.

I lost the fight.... Lol but hey no free punches to the face for me....


That was middle school and i was suspended and hospitalized in a mental hpspital XD by my parents bevayse they where "Recommended" by the schoool....

Not forced, but recomended..... So could of said no....

Anyway im going off topic.
Sorry.
Can't stress enough how much I relate. "You can talk to me. I would rather know how you feel than worry because I don't know!" No, you do not want to hear my unfiltered thoughts and emotions. Even when I water it down my friends still get really weirded out and stressed. It's sort of dehumanizing and alienating that I can't talk to anyone about my feelings without their only reaction to that being "go to a psych ward". Hell no. I just want to be treated like a normal person with some issues. Not like an unfixable ticking time bomb. That's why I never really vent anymore. Learned my lesson the hard way. I hope therapy isn't the same if I ever get access to that.
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Mage
May 7, 2025
552
It's annoying. I had been talking to a relative who had been nice, but eventually settled onto a standard pattern of "you should talk to someone. Someone could help." That basically confirmed to me that they weren't really hearing me, and it was a waste of both our time to continue... this person also had called for a welfare check on me late last year.

So, I was talking to someone... and it wasn't really helping... and that person said to "talk to someone" because "it could help" as if I wasn't doing that already and it wasn't helping. And so that's one more person that got cut out of my life. That put me down to officially zero at that point.
 
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tanshakti

Absurdity of life
Jul 2, 2025
93
From reddit: if one more person responds with generic BS like suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, I swear I will hunt you down and make it your permanent problem"-lol
 
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kopebaldy

Member
Jul 5, 2025
43
Talk to someone, I did, it was nice, then what?
Some courtesies, some encouragement, some back patting... then nothing would change.

At best, I'm just spreading negativities around like a plague.
Nothing would change except it will make my escape much harder after every talk.

There's no path for me in life. Let's not leave behind unnecessary baggages when I eventually leave.
 
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Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
2,316
I spent several years doing talk therapy, yet here I am. Clearly talking is the ultimate solution. 🙄
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Mage
May 7, 2025
552
So... talk to person, and everyone says "you just talked to a person, not a professional."

Talk to professional and it doesn't help either and people say "you're not trying." Why does nobody question the professional? If my car is broken and I take it to a mechanic, and the mechanic is unable to fix my car... nobody says it is my fault for not trying hard enough. They would say find a better mechanic.

But the icing on the cake for any of us with social issues...

Professionals will want you to talk in group therapy... which is just talking with other non-professional people... which is what you did in the first place and when it didn't work people said it doesn't count because you weren't talking to a professional.

The whole thing is BS... circular pass-the-buck BS.
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Mage
May 7, 2025
552
Oh... and I have someone who keeps telling me they wish I would talk to someone. Which really just means, "stop talking to me."
 
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