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river_birch

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May 17, 2025
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In the USA, is there a way to sort having your body taken care of after so that no one you know has to deal with that?
 
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JudasWolverton

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Jun 10, 2024
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ctb somewhere nobody will find you. that's my plan.
 
cemeteryismyhome

cemeteryismyhome

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Mar 15, 2025
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I went to a local cemetery and paid for everything in advance. Made all the plans. When I'm dead, all someone has to do is call them, and they will come and pick up the body and take care of everything. It was expensive but I felt like I had to do it.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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Depends on who finds you and if you have a will with instructions on what to do with you when you die. Unfortunately, if the police find you, a family member may have to identify your body.
 
badkarma4618

badkarma4618

Marika the Eternal
May 13, 2025
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I went to a local cemetery and paid for everything in advance. Made all the plans. When I'm dead, all someone has to do is call them, and they will come and pick up the body and take care of everything. It was expensive but I felt like I had to do it.
how did you arrange it without raising red flags? i wanted to plan something out like this but im afraid they may call in a wellness check or something
 
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cemeteryismyhome

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how did you arrange it without raising red flags? i wanted to plan something out like this but im afraid they may call in a wellness check or something
I often forget I'm almost 60 years old until I look in a mirror. But it was just sales and marketing to them. It was a little strange but not surprising. Right down to the very end you get offered options, deals, discounts, blah blah blah. They were more than happy to make a sale. Actually, now that I think about it, if a young person walked in with a smile and just said they're in to long-range planning, they would be impressed (and happy to make a sale).
 
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river_birch

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New to site. Seeking answer. This is an attempt to "bump" up the question.
 

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