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Darkover

Darkover

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Jul 29, 2021
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the reality of living in a world where struggle is constant and rewards feel scarce leads to deep disillusionment. It's difficult to feel invested in a life that requires relentless effort just to keep up, while genuine fulfillment or peace seem perpetually out of reach.

In a world where struggle is the baseline, there's a sense of exhaustion that comes from constantly battling just to meet basic needs — financial security, mental health, physical health, or even the search for meaning. When hardship is the rule, not the exception, life can start to feel like an endless, punishing cycle. The idea of working hard for occasional, fleeting rewards feels empty, especially when the effort itself often outweighs whatever sense of accomplishment or happiness we might gain.

There's also the disheartening reality that, for many, the structure of society doesn't just overlook individual suffering; it actively seems to depend on it. People are expected to labor in systems that don't prioritize well-being, often just to survive. Those who don't "play by the rules" or fall short are penalized or left behind. Struggle is normalized, and any expectation of fairness is quickly branded as naïve. For some, life becomes an act of survival rather than a pursuit of happiness or growth.

And when we're told to see life's chaos as "beautiful," or to appreciate the so-called "lessons" it gives, it can feel patronizing, as if being aware of life's pain should somehow make us grateful for it. The reality is, when suffering and struggle are the constants, a lot of people start to wonder what the point is — why invest in a system that feels built on endless demands and minimal returns?

This disillusionment is a natural response to feeling trapped in a world that seems to ask for everything while giving back so little. For many, stepping away from these demands — mentally or emotionally — can feel like the only form of agency available, a way of saying, "I didn't sign up for this." It's a rejection of a world where struggle is the standard, and peace is the rare exception.
 
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the reality of living in a world where struggle is constant and rewards feel scarce leads to deep disillusionment. It's difficult to feel invested in a life that requires relentless effort just to keep up, while genuine fulfillment or peace seem perpetually out of reach.

In a world where struggle is the baseline, there's a sense of exhaustion that comes from constantly battling just to meet basic needs — financial security, mental health, physical health, or even the search for meaning. When hardship is the rule, not the exception, life can start to feel like an endless, punishing cycle. The idea of working hard for occasional, fleeting rewards feels empty, especially when the effort itself often outweighs whatever sense of accomplishment or happiness we might gain.

There's also the disheartening reality that, for many, the structure of society doesn't just overlook individual suffering; it actively seems to depend on it. People are expected to labor in systems that don't prioritize well-being, often just to survive. Those who don't "play by the rules" or fall short are penalized or left behind. Struggle is normalized, and any expectation of fairness is quickly branded as naïve. For some, life becomes an act of survival rather than a pursuit of happiness or growth.

And when we're told to see life's chaos as "beautiful," or to appreciate the so-called "lessons" it gives, it can feel patronizing, as if being aware of life's pain should somehow make us grateful for it. The reality is, when suffering and struggle are the constants, a lot of people start to wonder what the point is — why invest in a system that feels built on endless demands and minimal returns?

This disillusionment is a natural response to feeling trapped in a world that seems to ask for everything while giving back so little. For many, stepping away from these demands — mentally or emotionally — can feel like the only form of agency available, a way of saying, "I didn't sign up for this." It's a rejection of a world where struggle is the standard, and peace is the rare exception.
Dark over…. As always, very well said. 👍
Thank you for this post. ❤️
 

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