Haha yeah. For a while now. But she really just doesn't know how to deal with me, since the emotions are so severe (which is...fair). It's gotten to the point where I think she's just weirded out or even scared of me that she just avoids me in this state.
If I'm audibly sobbing and I don't get a glance at this point, it also just makes me so depressed I cant even blink lol
My therapist, tells me most people don't know how to deal with other people's pain. distress. It makes them uncoufortable, but still, I find it a bit cold, specially comming from someone who is supposed to care about you. Like most likely she is not deaf, she notices and ignores you. Either cause she doesn't care or cause she doesn't know how to deal with you. I don't know how old you both are, but in my opinion it's just wrong.
Yes you can get up and tell her: "Hey I am sad and I would like to talk about it. do you mind?" ( You can try to be the bigger person, and comunicate to her your needs to her, that is, tell her is you just want her to listen, if you want some concrete advice, if you want some reasuring etc.) But I personally wouldn't even bother cause I would be way too hurt. Cause to me that's basic. ( if it was me that relationship wouldn't last very long)
