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Lara Francis

Lara Francis

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Jun 30, 2018
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Sorry just one more question.
Should i start reducing the contacts with my son ?
This may make it slightly easier.
I feel so so sad and cannot stop crying right now.
 
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Jen0804

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Feb 24, 2019
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Hugs Lara

Been through this before. I hope you don't feel like I'm prying but do you meet at a contact centre? I'd say ithat would be nice to plan some nice days together doing fun memorable things together xx
 
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cornflowerblue

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Feb 18, 2019
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Sorry just one more question.
Should i start reducing the contacts with my son ?
This may make it slightly easier.
I feel so so sad and cannot stop crying right now.
Nobody can know the answer to this. Even your son can at best make a guess, but he also can't predict how he will feel in five years.
 
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TiredHorse

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Nov 1, 2018
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I would not reduce contact: your withdrawal might tip authorities to your intentions, and --more importantly-- less contact with your son would hurt you more than you already hurt and make it less likely you can endure long enough to be with him again.

Please, please be kind to yourself. Kindness for you will translate into kindness for him, if it helps you to reunite with him.
 
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Lara Francis

Lara Francis

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Jun 30, 2018
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Hugs Lara

Been through this before. I hope you don't feel like I'm prying but do you meet at a contact centre? I'd say ithat would be nice to plan some nice days together doing fun memorable things. I'm not sure of circumstance but that's what I plan to do with the kids before xxx
I don't know if it makes it any easier, ts painful isn't it :(
No matter what I know deep down they'll be hurting so right now I'm trying to make the most of the time left
We have supervised visits in the community.xx
 
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