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Kamaainakupua

Kamaainakupua

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Mar 15, 2026
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Just a quick update, as three Foreign-Language threads were recently locked by a moderator:
This may have been in response to a ticket I put in recently.
(If you can't see the ticket, please reply here and I'll cut/paste the contents)

As far as I know, foreign language use in direct/private messages is not moderated, but can be reported so be careful if you're using an AI translator and don't double-check the translation. A simple error can lead to a complicated situation.

Please feel free to send me a message if you would like to get more details, or converse in whatever.
 
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U. A.

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All tickets are private by nature; only mods will be able to see the contents of that link.
There's another fairly active secondary language thread that I imagine will also be locked soon.
 
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Kamaainakupua

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Mar 15, 2026
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This may have been in response to a ticket I put in recently:
Just noticed a post in this thread was deleted by a moderator. I assume it was because he was posting his discord and requesting a direct message, but I want to be sure it's not about the language use. The Rules and FAQs state:
Chat Guidelines
... No breaking of any of the above rules in all chat channels. Any image or video attachments must be placed inside spoiler tags. Only talk in English.
Do those specific restrictions apply to direct messages and/or the main forums? That was the only instance of the Word "English", but the restriction may have been phrased differently. I frequently post in multiple languages in all three main forum sections, as well as in direct messages (and, as of this morning, on my profile posts) if it will facilitate communication or elicit a more open sharing, but I understand the burden that places on the mods. Please let me know if I should refrain completely, limit it to direct messages, or if it's all good as long as it doesn't violate any other rules.

I do not use the chat functions/rooms at all.

Thanks in advance for your guidance.
 
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idiotmother

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Mar 21, 2025
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So people aren't allowed to converse in any language besides English on here now? I wonder why?
 
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Kamaainakupua

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Mar 15, 2026
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So people aren't allowed to converse in any language besides English on here now? I wonder why?
The threads were closed with the direction to post in English.
According to this post:
please keep messages in english
...there may be further restrictions. If we can get clarification that would be helpful. Public posts have been definitively ruled as off limits (Italian, German, Russian threads locked by Dante_ for anything but English.

Are you now saying that direct/private messages initiated with [Start Conversation] are also to be restricted? As mentioned above, the Rules/FAQ are ambiguous, and the reason given for the restriction is this:
Dante_ said:
...foreign language threads take too many resources to moderate.
If that is indeed the reason, the ruling should not apply to private messages, as we can report violations without compromising the sanctity of that unmoderated space, and without adding any burden to the moderators.
Can mods or admins read my PMs?
Staff cannot read your PMs unless someone reports a message that is from you, in which case we will be able to see the reported message.
The freedom to converse privately in whatever language is necessary can reduce additional pain and frustration from miscommunication and poor translation to English. We just want to feel understood, and it feels like you are taking away our ability to do that.

If we could get a moderator to clarify that would be appreciated.
 
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idiotmother

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The threads were closed with the direction to post in English.
According to this post:

...there may be further restrictions. If we can get clarification that would be helpful. Public posts have been definitively ruled as off limits (Italian, German, Russian threads locked by Dante_ for anything but English.

Are you now saying that direct/private messages initiated with [Start Conversation] are also to be restricted? As mentioned above, the Rules/FAQ are ambiguous, and the reason given for the restriction is this:

If that is indeed the reason, the ruling should not apply to private messages, as we can report violations without compromising the sanctity of that unmoderated space, and without adding any burden to the moderators.


The freedom to converse privately in whatever language is necessary can reduce additional pain and frustration from miscommunication and poor translation to English. We just want to feel understood, and it feels like you are taking away our ability to do that.

If we could get a moderator to clarify that would be appreciated.
That's too bad , seems wrong somehow :(
 
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mjolnir

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Nov 15, 2025
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There are megatopics in different languages; generally, it's a way for people to connect with others who share a reality closer to their own. I didn't know that was prohibited.
I don't think people should restrict themselves to speaking only English.
 
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I understand the problem and I accept the rules,
one could create private conversation groups in the respective native language
 
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this new rule has given me nightmares,
I accidentally posted something in my native language and got banned
 
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Kamaainakupua

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Just to be clear, there are not eough moderators to deal with keeping the site free of things like cyberbullying in English, nevermind any other languages. Please respect the "request", by only posting in English in the public forums. I have conversations open to anyone that wants to use ANY other language. Cutrently French, Filipino, German, Turkish, Tagalog (separate from Filipino) and Arabic. Post here (in English) if you'd like to join any of those or feel free to start your own with other members. There is a solution.
this new rule has given me nightmares,
I accidentally posted something in my native language and got banned
I had that too. Thank you for waking me up.
 
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you say falling victim to myself is weak, so be it
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this new rule has given me nightmares,
I accidentally posted something in my native language and got banned
I dont understand why this is happening....
 
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