Possible to fall in love with another user on the forum?

[bigj75]

Would it effect your ctb plans? Say for instance you started talking to someone here and you both had a connection. Would you still ctb or would you give the relationship a chance and see if y'all could overcome depression together?

 

[Lefty]

Hard to say honestly. I think if two people felt a connection with each other and they were both depressed they may both leave CTB on the table as a option. For others it may make them want to live. Honestly if I found a partner off this site and felt a connection with them, I'd leave CTB on the table as an option, but we wouldn't have to die.

 

[NotWorthLiving]

I'm confused. Whats up with this thread in the ss threads menu??

 

[littlelady774]

I feel too broken to fall in love with anyone again honestly.
I've completely lost the gusto for life

 

[Mr2005]

I reckon all too easily

 

[Sinbad]

"We found love in a hopeless place."-Rihanna.

Of course it's possible. Love finds a way. Always.
This is a fact not my opinion.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

It's always possible but I wouldn't do it even if I were single. But tbh I think some people are using the site to kind of creep/hook up. Like there is a guy who has his pic in his profile and is going around 'following' only women on here. Like dude, really.

Anyway, I tend to think many of us are either in a bad place or not great at playing nice. I'm not the healthiest person to be around so I have to assume that is true of some others as well.

 

[ReadyasEver]

I love Angst, his rather brutal and honest humor is usually placed perfectly. Still being able to find things funny brings balance to me, it does not make me want to change my plans to CTB, but to simply appreciate one thing in life that is good, laughter.

 

[Help_Me]

I want to ctb because of love failure.. So no, I am not thinking of falling in love again.

 

[Thoughtforms]

I know a couple who met on a social anxiety fb group. It's good they can relate but I think they just encourage avoidance of social settings even more now

It makes me a hypocrite but i couldn't date someone who was suicidal. Who could? I do prefer positive people. I do aspire to be like them. I don't like being like this. They say we seek in others what we wish we had in ourselves. For me that's happiness.

 

[sólstafir]

Too broken for that. To stop me from CTB, it'd have to happen in real life and even that would be a miracle. I need to feel guy's energy in real life as crazy as it sounds, but I can easily fall in love with peoples' thoughts, the way they use words and what vibe they give out, I can sense it through screen, and I've met really beautiful people here.

 

[Logic]

"We found love in a hopeless place."-Rihanna.

Of course it's possible. Love finds a way. Always.
This is a fact not my opinion.

Um love is not magic. You can almost always find love if you just talk to enough members of the opposite sex.

 

[Logic]

Would it effect your ctb plans? Say for instance you started talking to someone here and you both had a connection. Would you still ctb or would you give the relationship a chance and see if y'all could overcome depression together?

A connection? Love is not magic. You are being more vulnerable/showing your darkest feelings to each other which is one of the most important parts In developing love. It's also more likely you feel you can understand each other better than in anyone in real life another very important part in love. On top of all that you are not seeing is the negative parts of your partner so your brain fills in the gaps. Ofcourse you can fall in this love on this forum, hell its probaly one of the easier places to score much easier than a bar. The only major issue is geographical issues.

 

[Whatshername]

I feel too broken to fall in love with anyone again honestly.
I've completely lost the gusto for life

Same here. I went through a rough divorce partly, though not entirely because I'm so f%cked in the head, so broken. I spent years alone until finally I met someone who I could feel for again, and who accepted me as I am. He passed away in an accident a year and a half later. I'm done with love.

 

[iHeartRockArt]

Ok everyone...let's all remember where we are. This is Sanctioned Suicide. We are a pro-choice community where most of our users are all here for the same reasons, and that's not to play match-maker or establish intimate relationships, nor are we trying to encourage others to do so.

Please be aware that Sanctioned Suicide is not your own personal dating site and using it for hook-ups or to find a partner for anything other than what this community depicts is not what we stand for.

I don't want to have to close this thread, but I will without hesitation if things go further than they should. Please don't create any other threads about forming connections/relationships within Sanctioned Suicide.
Thank you.

 

[LiveSlowDieFast]

I could see it happen, because I could see people bonding over their suffering, but I couldn't imagine it going well.

 

[bunny]

i love only one person, but he will never want me. no one will ever make me feel the way he does. my soul belongs to him. i am his slave in life and in death

 

[Johnnythefox]

It does seem odd that you introduce a thread asking about sex before CTB and now enquire about members attitudes to love.

 

[anelakapu]

Im probably a bad example but as someone who experienced falling in love thru a suicide website, I dont recommend it. especially if its long distance and you both have little/no money and one of you (me) is very borderline. Its too easy to have unrealistic hope and end up making a bigger mess. Its funny because when he was getting better he went back to look at suicide forums and remarked how most people on them were just desperate for sex/romance which i still find ironic given all the threads on here. I wonder if he's dead.

 

[Johnnythefox]

funny because when he was getting better he went back to look at suicide forums and remarked how most people on them were just desperate for sex/romance

I would agree with this to some extent, obviously there are many younger users on here who have never experienced intimacy with another. However I'm not going to judge or tell anyone what to do.

 

[Johnnythefox]

I'm no expert on the laws of attraction, but I am aware that there is a whole lot of different chemical signals and body indicators that we are unaware of when attracted to someone.

https://m.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entr...NvbS8&guce_referrer_cs=DM3p8hRdeJWd6sV9MT1fuA

 

[NotWorthLiving]

@iHeartRockArt can we at least move this thread to off topic...

 

[therhydler]

 

[iHeartRockArt]

@iHeartRockArt can we at least move this thread to off topic...

I believe it was moved to off topic last night.

 

[agreement]

I reckon it's really easy to fall in love with the user named @agreement.
Even though I wouldn't suggest you to do so since he's suddenly going to CTB soon or at least decide that embracing his deep dark depression is more important than embracing love.

 

[DariaBuPL]

I think? Maybe, not sure. But I don't really want to try.

 

[MsM3talGamer]

Highly unlikely unless he's a top leading oncologist.

 

[TooLate2582]

Possible, not probable.....I've seen crazier shit, just not today.

People are attracted to those similar to them so that's where the possibility lies. I am attracted to girls whose dumpster fire is similar to mine. We can relate and ride the rollercoaster together...we've discussed briefly our ideation and thoughts and have helped each other through rough times. Is it a relationship? Yes. Is it fairytale love? Far from it.

There are some here for reasons that make it incompatible yet others here would give it a shot as relationships aren't a factor in their reasoning. There are some here with a concrete plan and date and some hold on to the choice simply because it's always there as an option.

The delivery of this and previous posts of the OP raise questions at least and red flags at worst regarding underlying motivations. There are a lot of fragile souls here that could be easily taken advantage of.

 

[TooLate2582]

Highly unlikely unless he's a top leading oncologist.

At first I wondered what birds had to do with it. Then I realized I confused it with an ornithologist

 

[Sotipoola]

Feel like people would be too depressed to give the relationship a go.