I agree. With anxiety, I get infantilized ("aww nervous lil baby uwu") by certain people until I have a full blown panic attack. Once I start hyperventilating, crying, and screaming people get annoyed and want nothing to do with me. I don't get comforted and no one helps me ground myself. Instead, I get told to shut the fuck up and that I'm driving the people around me insane. After years of being treated lesser than and as an embarrassment, I learned to hide my attacks a lot better. I would either just hide in my room and let it manifest there or in a single-person restroom if I'm in public. People really don't give a shit about people they consider burdensome ... Anxiety and depression are only "valid" if the normies can deal with it.