People attending funeral

[Amarajoy]

I don't really have anyone to attend my funeral. Only one person really and I don't really want that person attending. I know it sounds awful but I live with them. They have provided a roof over my head while I've been physically disabled and unable to support myself. My disability keeps getting denied so I cannot move out. But for all the kindness in providing me a place to stay thru can be pretty mean to me and honestly I'm concerned they will say bad things about me. Or try to make my funeral all about themselves and how great they are for helping me. But I would also feel pretty awful leaving a note like hey thanks for giving me a home but I don't you at my funeral. Anyone else dealing with this?

 

[EmptyBottle]

You may be able to make a funeral playlist that gets the mood across, eg, songs like ( https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bensonboone/sorryimhereforsomeoneelse.html )... and songs about being thankful (eg https://genius.com/Dido-thank-you-lyrics ). These are ofc suggestions, feel free to pick any song u wish.

If they try and make the funeral about themselves, or talk badly about the deceased, it may be come back to embarrass them

 

[TBONTB]

Is there a reason there needs to be a funeral?

 

[Cosmophobic]

I'm guessing you're talking about your parents? The amount of people living in their childhood home these days is off the charts and the vast majority aren't disabled. You have no reason to feel indebted in the first place.