People are a disappointment

[LittleMagician]

Yes, there are people in my life who havent disrespected me, atleast not that I'm aware of. Not everything is about pushing boundaries. Sometimes people are just decent, it's rare, but it can happen. Claiming it's an objective reality that everyone will disrespect you sounds more like a personal belief than a fact

Well I am glad. Hope it stays that way .
I understand why it may seem personally driven, it is my personal experience after all.

There is just no way someone can be completely decent to you without hurting you at least once, despite anything…
It's an objective reality because inherently "good people" do not exist.
It's either altruism or they need you for a personal gain.
Yes…even family love counts as altruism…depending on your definition

I'm sorry i didn't absolutely mean to be disrespectful on women or men, i hate all indiscriminately
It's it just happened to a pair of people i cared about at the moment, very similar situation, that they felt bad bc their partner couldn't understand, bc they were so less empathetic and "but i love him he's ok" i just don't understand if they hurt me and my feelings i no longer can have the same relationship with a person
Just that but relationship are a living hell full of little annoying faces of the dice

Do not apologise for saying what you want. Free speech this is a free country but I am allowed not to like what you've said…
Human emotions are complex and reducing it down to "All girls have low standards and stay with bad men" is quite reductionist. EXTREMELY TRUE but reductionist since you don't know me very well, but I understand how and why you've drawn that conclusion…
I also hate all indiscriminately.

 

[humantool]

Well I am glad. Hope it stays that way .
I understand why it may seem personally driven, it is my personal experience after all.

There is just no way someone can be completely decent to you without hurting you at least once, despite anything…
It's an objective reality because inherently "good people" do not exist.
It's either altruism or they need you for a personal gain.
Yes…even family love counts as altruism…depending on your definition

Thanks, I appreciate that. And I genuinely hope you find someone who can prove you wrong too, even just once. It can change a lot

 

[LittleMagician]

Thanks, I appreciate that. And I genuinely hope you find someone who can prove you wrong too, even just once. It can change a lot

Unfortunately it is out of the realm of possibility, since it doesn't exist,
The closest thing I could find to it was an Ai