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cherryblossom

cherryblossom

aprsnwhothnksallthetimehasnthgtothnkabtexcptoughts
Oct 8, 2024
20
Thank you so much, such a good and comprehensive list, the resources are very helpful thanks a lot 🤍
 
vanillamilkshakes

vanillamilkshakes

Aspiring Corpse
Aug 26, 2024
459
this is great, thank you for providing this
 
exhumed101

exhumed101

Experienced
Nov 25, 2024
225
Mental Health is a joke to the governments.
 
IDontKnowEverything

IDontKnowEverything

Please stop it
Mar 2, 2025
86
Really thank you. The work you did to put all of this in one place is something that actually may help me in the future. Thank you.
 
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Namelesa

Namelesa

Global Mod · Trapped in this Suffering
Sep 21, 2024
1,890
So I am wondering about doing some of the DBT work here as I suffer a lot of the symptoms of BPD but is it worth doing if I don't actually have the correct therapist to actually give me professional DBT help? It just says about that it isn't a replacement and should go alongside it but as I probably can't get that kind of therapist should I try this work out regardless?
 
Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,351
So I am wondering about doing some of the DBT work here as I suffer a lot of the symptoms of BPD but is it worth doing if I don't actually have the correct therapist to actually give me professional DBT help? It just says about that it isn't a replacement and should go alongside it but as I probably can't get that kind of therapist should I try this work out regardless?

Thnk n.e xampls r bettr wth a propr therpst whrevr pssble bt nt givn nt evry1 hs accss t/ tht thn takng info abt TIPP xerciss etc cld stll b of benft - slf hve bn givn info abt TIPP xerciss b/ ppl wh/ r nt speclsts in DBT

iirc slf dd fnd sme onlne spport grps whch d/ speclse in DBT in ordr fr ppl t/ fnd sme 'as clse 2 professnl spport as pssble' - thy shld b in th/ onlne spport grps thred

also iirc slf linkd a BPD/DBT webste whch ws speclly dsignd fr slf-educatn s/ imo lk thru all availbl info & jst tke wht wld b helpfl fr u
 
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Eika

Eika

The shadows have enlightened me.
Mar 4, 2025
22
I'm reading each.
Personally, I always take a shower in extremely cold water, it's a relief for impulsive thoughts.
 
lowres

lowres

Scum
Feb 9, 2019
129
I figured I would share some things that I received from my therapist. Just skimmed thru the OP, so apologies if I'm posting redundantly.

Most of this is dbt related work because for a while my main focus was trying to maintain my relationship with my gf. there is also a bunch of random grounding techniques available.

I found that dearman helps me the most when i want to vocalize any negative feelings i have in my relationship and I can't communicate them appropriately, fast is good in professional settings where people are stepping on your toes and dgaf.

Another good resource I found is 1giantmind or really any basic mantra meditation dealio like that transendential meditation stuff david lynch was really into. I'm not really a mindfulness person, I'm very cynical so its challenging for me to think better of situations but I find breathing and trying to let my thoughts wash over me is very valuable for having some level of peace inside my brain.
 

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