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endlessmelancholy

endlessmelancholy

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Jun 12, 2024
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Do you have any unwanted kinks or fetishes that makes you question if you want to have sex?
 
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Pluto

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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
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I have some kinks but no fetishes. None of my kinks make question if I want to have sex. What fetishes do you have that have led you to questioning whether you want to have sex or not? (You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable sharing that, btw)
 
endlessmelancholy

endlessmelancholy

Student
Jun 12, 2024
142
I have some kinks but no fetishes. None of my kinks make question if I want to have sex. What fetishes do you have that have led you to questioning whether you want to have sex or not? (You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable sharing that, btw)
Sorry I meant kinks. Like being a sub
 
EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

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Oct 21, 2023
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I'm also into findom and losing all my money
Ah, now I understand why you feel this way. Are there ways to practice that kink that may involve roleplaying making financial transactions instead of making real ones that leave you broke?
 
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pyx

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Jun 5, 2024
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possible autogynephilia
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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Not really a kink as such. I had a very prudish upbringing- no sex before marriage and all that. Sex has pretty much become marriage in my head. It almost feels like a spiritual thing in a way- a joining of souls. Not that I am all that religious or spiritual. Still, it's not something I'd do casually because it would utterly mess me up emotionally. I'm actually glad I realised that though- it could have ended up in a lot of heart break otherwise.

Kind of irrelevant anyway though because I'm not at all attractive! That's more the barrier if I'm honest. Even if someone did by some miracle find me attractive, I doubt I'd have the confidence for it.

Plus, there's the concern of STD's and for women specifically- getting pregnant. And also, the high possibility of suicide in the future. I don't actually want to be creating more tethers to this life. Especially not in the shape of people. Doesn't seem fair on them.
 
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Gangrel

Gangrel

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Jul 25, 2024
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I'm hypersexual and that makes me feel disgusted by myself sometimes. So i get it.
 
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Plentiful_Despair

Plentiful_Despair

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Aug 23, 2024
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I can't get excited about sex. The fact that it's biological purpose is to create more prisoners for this world disgusts me and I don't like how a vagina or a penis looks. I get sexual thoughts sometimes, but I don't act on it, because it disgusts me at the same time.
 
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Promised Heaven

Promised Heaven

Eternally atoning
Feb 1, 2024
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Kinks? Probably neck nibbling. Not bite, a nibble on the lips with a tiny bit of the teeth with a shoulder massage.

Fetishes? I've been sexual abused, I'm primarily attracted to being abused or having no control. Without that role, I find sex to be boring and unamusing. The abuse attraction gives me no joy, only a happy body and a distressed mind. It been this way for almost a decade though haven't realized until a few years ago.
 
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