Discussion "It’s ok to let go"

[Obliviate]

Posts like these have helped me so much and to realize that we're not the crazy ones, the world is. It's ok to let go of my pain, suffering and want peace. I like to think of myself as the dog. It's none of our faults for being here. I don't have to keep senselessly fighting. The world and society failed us, not ourselves. We're not cowards for wanting to CTB, the rest of the world is for causing us so much pain that it led up to it. I'm tired and it's absolutely ok for me to let go

 

[coyotestark]

Thank you, your post has brought me comfort.

 

[jodes2]

Aww nice post sorry to anyone who wants to CTB I hope you give it time

 

[hopeless302]

I wish most "normal" people viewed us this way. Instead of thinking of us as selfish, mentally ill children, perhaps view us as intelligent beings who have been through a lot and want to be at peace.

 

[hiddenbpd]

Posts like these have helped me so much and to realize that we're not the crazy ones, the world is. It's ok to let go of our pain, sufferings and want peace. I like to think of myself as the dog. It's none of our faults for being here. We don't have to keep senselessly fighting. The world and society failed us, not yourself. You're not a coward for wanting to CTB, the rest of the world is for causing us so much pain that it led up to it. I'm tired and it's absolutely ok to let go
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This is the comfort I'm trying to feel when I try to get people around me to give me permission to take my life. Logically I know it's fruitless, but I'd love for someone to tell me it's okay and that I don't need to suffer any longer.

 

[Wannagonow]

Thank you for the post. Although my plan is to ctb and I feel SO tired in life...your post reminded me I'm okay and it was a nice few minutes.

 

[Obliviate]

I wish most "normal" people viewed us this way. Instead of thinking of us as selfish, mentally ill children, perhaps view us as intelligent beings who have been through a lot and want to be at peace.

Exactly. Literally will make our lives hell and then wonder why we're having a hard time and then continue to do nothing about it, in fact make things worse.

This is the comfort I'm trying to feel when I try to get people around me to give me permission to take my life. Logically I know it's fruitless, but I'd love for someone to tell me it's okay and that I don't need to suffer any longer.

I think the only permission you need is from yourself. Your body your choice. Anyone else that tries to stop you is the selfish one that they would rather continue to put you through the pain just for their satisfaction than want you to be at peace.

Thank you for the post. Although my plan is to ctb and I feel SO tired in life...your post reminded me I'm okay and it was a nice few minutes.

There are lots of time where I doubt it and there will be plenty more before my time comes to CTB, but I just envision ALL the souls that die every day. If you really think about it, we really are nothing. The circle of life is so normal. There are so many souls right now departing to heaven from Iran RN. People being killed innocently just for wanting basic human rights.

 

[FuneralCry]

Yes, the truth is that there could never be anything wrong with us wishing to leave behind a life that we never asked for. I personally see no value and benefit to suffering, and at least for me life itself will always be the problem, so the only solution for me is death. I could never want to exist in this world no matter what and this is why the thought of non existence brings me so much comfort.

There's also the fact that death is simply inevitable for us all. As humans we only exist just to die and be forgotten about anyway. Death is the most normal thing, we will all lose everything someday so there shouldn't be so much stigma associated with it.

 

[Obliviate]

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[whitefeather]

What novelist Cai Emmons taught us about how to die

Cai Emmons, a prolific novelist of the West, died Monday, after running a blog after her ALS diagnosis that has much to teach us about facing the inevitable.

www.latimes.com

www.caiemmonsathor.com/blog

 

[tiredofbreathing]

Thank you for posting this.

 

[Obliviate]

What novelist Cai Emmons taught us about how to die

Cai Emmons, a prolific novelist of the West, died Monday, after running a blog after her ALS diagnosis that has much to teach us about facing the inevitable.

www.latimes.com

www.caiemmonsathor.com/blog

This is beautiful. Thank You

 

[whitefeather]

Its never too soon to ctb .

 

[purplehearted]

This is such a sweet post. Thank you for sharing

 

[Obliviate]

Reminder 2

 

[Obliviate]

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[dimstar]

I think were the only ones that our pain and suffering. Ctb will effect others but I think when you've felt that was for a long long time and tried help with no success its almost selfish for them to want you to continue like that. Unfortunately that's not something most people can accept. Its alot to do deal with. But I've always believed if it's been a long time planning and waiting when the time is right you will know and be able to find peace and accept things in that moment. It's our life its ultimately our choice. We cant control what happens after.

 

[NoLoveNoHope]

Thank you for posting this, it reminds me I'm not crazy to let go.

 

[goodbye_._]

Thank you so much for this. I've been looked at like I'm crazy for so long and been told that I had to hold on for others. That it's selfish to want it to stop. But it's ok. This is just life and how it works, sometimes you got to let go. Of course I've already accepted the fact I'll Ctb but this just gave me so much relief.

 

[Unending]

Just seeing this and find it very comforting.

 

[Obliviate]

I think were the only ones that our pain and suffering. Ctb will effect others but I think when you've felt that was for a long long time and tried help with no success its almost selfish for them to want you to continue like that. Unfortunately that's not something most people can accept. Its alot to do deal with. But I've always believed if it's been a long time planning and waiting when the time is right you will know and be able to find peace and accept things in that moment. It's our life its ultimately our choice. We cant control what happens after.

Thank you for posting this, it reminds me I'm not crazy to let go.

Thank you so much for this. I've been looked at like I'm crazy for so long and been told that I had to hold on for others. That it's selfish to want it to stop. But it's ok. This is just life and how it works, sometimes you got to let go. Of course I've already accepted the fact I'll Ctb but this just gave me so much relief.

You are absolutely NOT crazy and selfish. The cruel world and society is, where they pushed us so hard and destroyed us from the inside out with no regrets or plans to change anytime soon. They are the selfish ones where they would rather see and want us to endure and continue with this pain forever just to have us around for their selfish wants and not give a fuck about what we are going through. And to make things worse, they blame it on us, insult us and say we need help or therapy when it really is the opposite. It's a harsh coincidence that people like this are at the top and in charge of the world. You were brought into this life and world without your consent, I believe it should be your right to take it away.

 

[Dominicka]

Posts like these have helped me so much and to realize that we're not the crazy ones, the world is. It's ok to let go of my pain, suffering and want peace. I like to think of myself as the dog. It's none of our faults for being here. I don't have to keep senselessly fighting. The world and society failed us, not ourselves. We're not cowards for wanting to CTB, the rest of the world is for causing us so much pain that it led up to it. I'm tired and it's absolutely ok for me to let go
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Thank you for this.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

Thank you for your post. I don't remember seeing it before.
It would be great if I could just let go in my sleep and never wake up.
I'm just not that lucky.

 

[Obliviate]

Now that my time is coming to an end.....I need to take my own advice.

 

[Crono]

Posts like these have helped me so much and to realize that we're not the crazy ones, the world is. It's ok to let go of my pain, suffering and want peace. I like to think of myself as the dog. It's none of our faults for being here. I don't have to keep senselessly fighting. The world and society failed us, not ourselves. We're not cowards for wanting to CTB, the rest of the world is for causing us so much pain that it led up to it. I'm tired and it's absolutely ok for me to let go
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This is comforting and sad at the same time. This is the truth of life and death, total opposites, but eternal friends.

 

[outlook56]

Thank you for sharing، beautiful
Life may force us to die sometimes

 

[jmj2324]

Thank you for the post, it is comforting to me

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Now that my time is coming to an end.....I need to take my own advice.

Wil you possibly post a goodbye thread?

 

[natthebrat]

I'm glad I read this, thank you.

 

[Arihman]

Even if we were cowards, so what? Why should everyone be brave, and for what purpose? I could understand calling you a coward if, say, you're a fireman who decided to do that kind of job, and then, when you're in action and there are people in danger who need help, you chicken out because you're afraid of the fire or something, thus leaving them to burn alive.

But nobody decided to come into this world to play with the fires of life, someone else dragged us here to play the game, so why should we have any reasonable obligation to be brave amd stay? To prove something to ourselves or others? I see no logical reason for that. Bravery and cowardice should thus be irrelevant when it comes to suicide.

People will call me a coward if I ctb? Well, tough shit, it's not my problem, this is just a psychological control attempt.