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Excentricqueer

Excentricqueer

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Jul 18, 2023
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I hate it when people deliberately call me she or a lady or ma'am I'm not a she Im genderqueer I use he/they pronouns. I am a mx. My gender dysphoria hurts alot I especially hate it when people say that im just a girl trying to feel special or a girl who doesn't like being sexualized. Its not that I don't want to be sexualized I hate being called a woman or female because that's not who I am. I am not a she I'm a they I'm non binary. My whole I had chest dysphoria and desired to have an androgynous body not aale body or a female body but an androgynous body and I desired to be a gender beyond the binary my whole life. Telling me Im not and can't be non binary and that I was born a girl I will always be a girl makes me ideate suicide and want to hurt myself my dysphoria really hurts alot.
 
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Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

Glorious Bean Plushie
Oct 12, 2020
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Here's a cute Astolfo, i feel like those always help.

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Cloud Busting

Cloud Busting

Formerly pinkribbonscars
Sep 9, 2023
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I'd love to tell you to live out of spite as the ultimate fuck you to bigots, but that's easier said than done.

Stay safe! I can't imagine the harassment you have to deal with. I'm truly sorry. I hope you have a supportive network of badass trans allies. A strong community behind you.
 
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asthedayends00

asthedayends00

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Oct 18, 2024
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Someone described 'they' as a person just trying figure out who they really are inside. Nothing wrong with soul searching. Sending love
 
rainatthebusstop

rainatthebusstop

feel free to kill me
Aug 20, 2025
135
I can't help you with that or make you feel better but I'm in the same boat here. It sick. It deeply sucks and you're never taken seriously for not wanting to be neither man nor woman.

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