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Water-Lily

Water-Lily

Enlightened
Dec 26, 2020
1,203
Would you feel a sense of relief that they're no longer around to hurt you? That their bad presence is gone completely?

Wouldn't that be freeing?
 
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Karl Heisenberg

Karl Heisenberg

Member
May 28, 2024
21
I don't have friends so I don't know.
 
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LostInTheWoods

Student
Oct 28, 2023
111
no wtf you guys scare me sometimes
 
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AbsentMindedHuman

AbsentMindedHuman

One day, ill be free
Apr 25, 2024
133
Plenty of people have wronged me or hurt me in the past. I dont think that makes me wish they were dead or happy if that was the case. Just like most things its best to try and move on and remove them from your life... like stop seeing them, not wish they died. That can be just as freeing. That kind of mindset is how murderer's are born....
 
Water-Lily

Water-Lily

Enlightened
Dec 26, 2020
1,203
Plenty of people have wronged me or hurt me in the past. I dont think that makes me wish they were dead or happy if that was the case. Just like most things its best to try and move on and remove them from your life... like stop seeing them, not wish they died. That can be just as freeing. That kind of mindset is how murderer's are born....
I feel after my screw up my friends will be happier since I'm gone
 
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AbsentMindedHuman

AbsentMindedHuman

One day, ill be free
Apr 25, 2024
133
I feel after my screw up my friends will be happier since I'm gone
That I can agree with. I feel that way all the time
 
littleinsanity

littleinsanity

Krackhead Bunni
Jun 21, 2024
55
No lol, sucks that there's no apology but they are still my friend and they simply believe they weren't in the wrong. The severity may depend on how they hurt me but I won't wish for anyone to stop existing over it
 
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CantDoIt

Elementalist
Jul 18, 2024
874
No, first my depression isn't their fault in this circumstance an second I just don't want to be vindictive in that way
 
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Gstreater

Gstreater

Student
Aug 10, 2024
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I don't think so because to some extent i still care for them, I've been hurt a lot over the years but I've only wanted one person to so existing and it's the person that sexually manipulated and abused me when I was little.
 
ThatGuyOverThere

ThatGuyOverThere

David Benatar Enjoyer
Apr 25, 2024
188
Nah, That's why you shouldn't befriend people in the first place.

They can never hurt you if you never meet them in the first place.
 
Jeav

Jeav

Member
Aug 1, 2024
72
No, I wouldn't blame a person who is unaware of their bad actions. Sometimes they are victims of their environment, and we can't know that unless we put ourselves in their perspective.

I did bad things in life, and when I looked back on them and tried to understand why, I realized it was simply due to my toxic environment, my stubbornness ans also my lack of experience and maturity.
 
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maniac116

maniac116

My own worst enemy🌹💔
Aug 10, 2024
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Would you feel a sense of relief that they're no longer around to hurt you? That their bad presence is gone completely?

Wouldn't that be freeing?
I would feel bad that we no longer had a chance to resolve our differences.🌹💔
 
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fleetingnight

fleetingnight

incapable of shutting up
May 2, 2024
662
I've been treated terribly by some ex-friends, but I can't think of one I want dead, even if I want them out of my life
 

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