Discussion I think our desire to comfort ourselves before commiting ctb works against us.

[fkyou]

I think our desire to comfort ourselves before commiting ctb works against us..on one hand we don't want to leave with sore feelings, tired,sad, disappointed,or panic..but when we do comfort ourselves we feel better,we block our real life problems from our short memory,so now we feel good about life again,we don't wanna leave that,and the cycle continues, time passes and you think you're lying to yourself.I think trying to make yourself feel better by forgetting about your life does the opposite. I think staying engaged in your life is what makes you commit.

 

[Johnzaga23]

thats exactly what I do