Help i need a friend/support for a week.

[Aleksandra]

i dropped my dog off to his new owners today. he was an emotional support dog and i'm not coping well without him.

all i want is someone to talk to during the week. i don't want to die alone

 

[JimFord99]

Not easy letting a close pet go.

 

[Kiwi]

Hugs hunny.

 

[Aleksandra]

Not easy letting a close pet go.

yeah.. but i have the peace of mind that he gets a nice family who will love and care for him when i'm no longer here. so there's that!

Hugs hunny.

 

[Centerism]

Hey,
I am on your side. It can't be easy to let such a good, trustworthy friend go. I'm sorry that had to happen.

I am here for you no matter what. I too find it easier if I have somebody to talk to. It just seems like the shared dialog between two alike people can be calming. If it's any consolation, I had a really good friend of mine due last night. He was a loving, kind, caring person. He went out still having a zest for life. It's really debilitating knowing he left before his time.

You can feel free to message me anytime. I am always here.

 

[İnilerim]

I live in Germany but my family is Polish, I can't guarantee being online 24/7 but I don't work or have major plans next week.

 

[Aleksandra]

Hey,
I am on your side. It can't be easy to let such a good, trustworthy friend go. I'm sorry that had to happen.

I am here for you no matter what. I too find it easier if I have somebody to talk to. It just seems like the shared dialog between two alike people can be calming. If it's any consolation, I had a really good friend of mine due last night. He was a loving, kind, caring person. He went out still having a zest for life. It's really debilitating knowing he left before his time.

You can feel free to message me anytime. I am always here.

thank you:)

I live in Germany but my family is Polish, I can't guarantee being online 24/7 but I don't work or have major plans next week.

i'm never really active during the day as i go to sleep at 9am and wake up before 6pm :(

 

[Options]

is the "for the week" part of your post because you're gunna ctb at the end of the week?
sorry if thats asking too much

 

[Aleksandra]

is the "for the week" part of your post because you're gunna ctb at the end of the week?
sorry if thats asking too much

pretty much:(

 

[Options]

i feel like i ought to talk you out of it but i guess that isnt the point of this site.
how you planning on going?

 

[Blackjack]

i feel like i ought to talk you out of it but i guess that isnt the point of this site.
how you planning on going?

Why are you on this site Options?

 

[Options]

not to talk people in or out of things if thats where you re going.

 

[nolongerhurting]

I and everyone else is here for you. You can always talk to us because we all love you Ps. I don't know if this is allowed but you are very pretty

 

[Blackjack]

not to talk people in or out of things if thats where you re going.

I'd be willing to bet that most every person on here has enough people in their every day lives trying to talk them in or out of things regularly. That's not what this place is about. Might I suggest you listen and be supportive, without pushing your own agenda.

 

[Nanimoaru]

i dropped my dog off to his new owners today. he was an emotional support dog and i'm not coping well without him.

all i want is someone to talk to during the week. i don't want to die alone

You can talk to me anytime!

 

[oopswronglife]

I'd be willing to bet that most every person on here has enough people in their every day lives trying to talk them in or out of things regularly. That's not what this place is about. Might I suggest you listen and be supportive, without pushing your own agenda.

Take it easy. I know you have a serious illness and a lot of pressure, but support IS important here too. This isn't a pro suicide place...its a love and support place that accepts sometimes people cannot find a path to life. That doesn't mean its wrong or an "agenda" to try and make sure people have all help and ideas they can get. We are all hurting. A lot of people DON'T have anyone...and even then the sort of "hang on a min" you get here isn't the ignorant and blind, even if well meaning, tripe you get out there.

 

[Options]

I'm not trying to push an agenda.
I'm sorry if it came across like that.
I think this is one of those times where the more I try to explain or talk the worse I'll make it.

 

[tlcmi]

Hi love! I don't have anything major planned this week. You can talk to me anytime!

 

[Options]

man 3 posts in and I've already pissed everyone off.

 

[oopswronglife]

I think this is one of those times where the more I try to explain or talk the worse I'll make it.

Not at all. You did and said nothing wrong and didn't come across poorly. You showed kindness. Some people are in a bad way and defensive/reactive. That's not on you. Don't sweat it.

 

[SinisterKid]

I'm not trying to push an agenda.
I'm sorry if it came across like that.
I think this is one of those times where the more I try to explain or talk the worse I'll make it.

Dont worry too much about it, you are new and finding your feet.

 

[pole]

man 3 posts in and I've already pissed everyone off.

Nah blackjack is in the wrong. You didnt do anything wrong.

u shouldnt feel bad because ur not someone who eggs someone on in ctbing, or likes to support someone because you know how.it feels to be in that position.

this isnt a pro suicide website, theres many individuals who are pro choice and solely pro life trying to help others. you werent pushing any type of agenda. And as a new member, you shouldnt be treated like you were in the wrong.

welcome to the site, and on behalf of a fellow members actions, i'm sorry you've recieved negativity already for doing the right thing. not everyone's that aggressive.

hope to see you around more.

 

[Rocksandsand]

@zajebistakaczka hugs! I have a fur baby that I need to go through this process with too, and I am dreading the separation. My heart goes out to you.

 

[Aleksandra]

i didn't mean for this post to make people argue. i just didn't want to die alone..

 

[Options]

That wasnt you dw. I pretty much have that effect on people. Plus i hijacked your thread.
what breed was your dog ?

 

[Aleksandra]

That wasnt you dw. I pretty much have that effect on people. Plus i hijacked your thread.
what breed was your dog ?

siberian husky!:) was 7 years old. i have a peace of mind he has wonderful new owners now

 

[Options]

did you have him from a pup? I would have liked to own a dog, but I would have never had the time.

 

[color_me_gone]

Take it easy. I know you have a serious illness and a lot of pressure, but support IS important here too. This isn't a pro suicide place...its a love and support place that accepts sometimes people cannot find a path to life. That doesn't mean its wrong or an "agenda" to try and make sure people have all help and ideas they can get. We are all hurting. A lot of people DON'T have anyone...and even then the sort of "hang on a min" you get here isn't the ignorant and blind, even if well meaning, tripe you get out there.

@oopswronglife wish i could upvote your post 100 times!

 

[Rocksandsand]

siberian husky!:) was 7 years old. i have a peace of mind he has wonderful new owners now

Huskies are so funny. They have so much character. What's he like? How did you choose his new family?

I have a toy poodle x bichon frise. He is currently perched on my shoulder as I am writing this because I have been crying. Pets are such an amazing support. I really hope you're okay.

 

[oopswronglife]

Huskies are so funny.

So FURRY too. I had a friend with a pair of them and the inside of their house was covered in white hair. It was on everything...I swear even the ceiling sometimes. Insane weirdo dogs but definitely not meant for the indoors.