My younger sister basically treats me like I'm dead to her most of the time. She almost always ignores me and she's extremely inconsiderate when I'm trying to sleep (we both share the same bedroom). She would know that what she's doing is loud and would easily wake me up (like her flipping paper very loudly, ripping paper, slamming her drawers, and even eating an apple in the same room instead of just eating it somewhere else), and she knows that I usually struggle going back to sleep. But she'll just do whatever she wants anyway, regardless of how loud she is and how her actions affect me overall.
Her inconsiderate actions affects and ruins my sleep nearly every day. I've told her about all of this before, but she obviously doesn't care. She's been like this basically forever. She says she loves me, but she damn sure doesn't show it first thing every day. (Trust me, if I could sleep in another room or just move, I would have done those a long time ago.) And the crazy thing is that I'm always considerate towards her and would never treat her or anyone like this.
It feels like nearly every time I talk to her, I get no response from her, or any sign that she was even listening to me in the first place (she almost never does). But if I were to repeat myself to her, she'll get annoyed with me. She calls it selective hearing, and maybe that is the case. However, I'm so sick of being ignored all the time. By her, by my youngest sister (though she doesn't ignore as much as my other one does, but still), my mother sometimes, and by most of my online friends. Then they always ask and wonder why I'm so quiet.
I bet if something were to happen to me (me offing myself or something), then everyone would be so shocked and surprised, as if there weren't any warning signs. They would all wonder why I did it, even though I tried to tell them the problem/problems over and over again, but they wouldn't listen to me or even take me seriously. They would then pay attention to me. They would then care more about me. They would then try to change for the better. But it'll all be too late. Because nobody cares about you until you're dead. And they're all (especially my younger sister) going to get a huge wake up call one day.
Her inconsiderate actions affects and ruins my sleep nearly every day. I've told her about all of this before, but she obviously doesn't care. She's been like this basically forever. She says she loves me, but she damn sure doesn't show it first thing every day. (Trust me, if I could sleep in another room or just move, I would have done those a long time ago.) And the crazy thing is that I'm always considerate towards her and would never treat her or anyone like this.
It feels like nearly every time I talk to her, I get no response from her, or any sign that she was even listening to me in the first place (she almost never does). But if I were to repeat myself to her, she'll get annoyed with me. She calls it selective hearing, and maybe that is the case. However, I'm so sick of being ignored all the time. By her, by my youngest sister (though she doesn't ignore as much as my other one does, but still), my mother sometimes, and by most of my online friends. Then they always ask and wonder why I'm so quiet.
I bet if something were to happen to me (me offing myself or something), then everyone would be so shocked and surprised, as if there weren't any warning signs. They would all wonder why I did it, even though I tried to tell them the problem/problems over and over again, but they wouldn't listen to me or even take me seriously. They would then pay attention to me. They would then care more about me. They would then try to change for the better. But it'll all be too late. Because nobody cares about you until you're dead. And they're all (especially my younger sister) going to get a huge wake up call one day.
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