Venting I have zero friends

[doomofman]

I haven't talked to anyone in 2 years, I slowly cut all my past friendships.

 

[gomer1978]

That must be so hard dude. Sorry to hear it. Maybe reach out to a couple of them.

 

[doomofman]

That must be so hard dude. Sorry to hear it. Maybe reach out to a couple of them.

I have nothing to talk with them and they wouldn't understand the current state that i am in.

 

[imontheloose]

I'll be your friend for what it's worth! I'll never judge you; you can talk to me about whatever you wish, that includes nothing at all hehe. I got pretty much ditched by my friends, slowly leaving me out of the circle till I wasn't a thought. At least we have something in common! <3

 

[doomofman]

I'll be your friend for what it's worth! I'll never judge you; you can talk to me about whatever you wish, that includes nothing at all hehe. I got pretty much ditched by my friends, slowly leaving me out of the circle till I wasn't a thought. At least we have something in common! <3

I don't mind having zero friends but the social isolation has taken it's toll

 

[Nightfoot]

I don't mind having zero friends but the social isolation has taken it's toll

Zero friends and social isolation go hand in hand, so is it possible that not having any friends actually is distressing to you?

 

[Hollowman]

No friends here either.

 

[doomofman]

Zero friends and social isolation go hand in hand, so is it possible that not having any friends actually is distressing to you?

you don't need friends to socialize with people especially if you are part of society, i deliberately became a hermit the last 2 years.

 

[hello_vatya]

I haven't talked to anyone in 2 years, I slowly cut all my past friendships.

Same its unbelievably painful, its like I find comfort my own self destruction

 

[doomofman]

Same its unbelievably painful, its like I find comfort my own self destruction

same, it's the next logical step

 

[death over slavery]

I'm so sorry to hear about that.

I'm an avoidant, and we're on the same boat that I do cut off past friendships and connections because my brain pushes me to do it even though I want to actually have friends. Like I have an opportunity to chat them again, or actually make even new friends in new environments, but I just cut them off, my brain wants to

 

[doomofman]

I'm so sorry to hear about that.

I'm an avoidant, and we're on the same boat that I do cut off past friendships and connections because my brain pushes me to do it even though I want to actually have friends. Like I have an opportunity to chat them again, or actually make even new friends in new environments, but I just cut them off, my brain wants to

I always end up breaking off most of my friendships because i feel no connection with most people and i find friendships to be as pointless as life.

 

[katara]

I'll be your friend for what it's worth! I'll never judge you; you can talk to me about whatever you wish, that includes nothing at all hehe. I got pretty much ditched by my friends, slowly leaving me out of the circle till I wasn't a thought. At least we have something in common! <3

Na he was on here talking about wanting to rape Ukrainian women

 

[Macedonian1987]

In my entire life i never ever had a true friend. Only people who used me for favors and i was too dumb and young to realise that.

 

[katara]

In my entire life i never ever had a true friend. Only people who used me for favors and i was too dumb and young to realise that.

Why did u comment this right under what I said? did u just ignore me or do you only care about yourself? Lol what the hell…

 

[Macedonian1987]

Why did u comment this right under what I said? did u just ignore me or do you only care about yourself? Lol what the hell…

I was responding to the OP. Not you.

 

[katara]

I was responding to the OP. Not you.

I'm starting to think all the men on this site who say they have no friends did it to themselves and are assholes irl. You saw that this guy wants to rape women, and still responded to him anyways.

 

[Macedonian1987]

I'm starting to think all the men on this site who say they have no friends did it to themselves and are assholes irl. You saw that this guy wants to rape women, and still responded to him anyways.

I would never rape or force anything upon any woman. but you are right about one thing about me, the fact that I'm without a friend, yes i did that to myself (sort of). My Asperger's syndrome makes me talk and act weird, that's why all people avoid me. But im not a bad person. I'm just different from other normal people, and normal people tend to hate people who have Asperger's most of the time.

 

[ABadPerson]

Na he was on here talking about wanting to rape Ukrainian women

Genuinely don't get how a war could make someone dehumanise regular people just like them so badly…

 

[sephlove]

I have no friends either. And the people I know that could be friends don't even make any effort, I'm always the one investing so much energy only for it to fall and crumble. Never had a lasting friendships. I think I'm the problem.

 

[Lavínia]

I abandon all my friends, any connection I could have... it's starting to hurt just now, after 1 year. I want to be alone, but when something happens, when I want to talk to someone... I can't do nothing

 

[toskita]

I'm starting to think all the men on this site who say they have no friends did it to themselves and are assholes irl. You saw that this guy wants to rape women, and still responded to him anyways.

(Not defending rape) You don't know any of these people so don't be entitled to put your social morality into them, do you check the whole profile of someone before approaching them? Like a whole background research to see if they're problematic to you? Because the common person doesn't, they read a post and send support, end of story. Have a little empathy before making other feel worse than they do, and go against the one that ACTUALLY SAID IT, instead of a random nice guy.

 

[ForeverLonely82]

I don't have any real friends either. I'm always alone even more so now with the passing of my wife. It is so hard to cope in this kind of world where everyone just connects through those damned devices that is attached to the hips of others. I'm older than most of you I am 43 years of age. Back in my time dinosaurs are on the earth We used to connect to each other face to face and we would have landline phones to talk to one another when we couldn't get together. We would develop deep friendships do things such as play video games, ride our bikes, watch movies and stay the night at each other's houses. Obviously when you get older things do change but you realize who your real friends are later on in life especially if there is a big change such as a move. I lived in Michigan and I thought I had friends there but it wasn't until after I moved from there how little I was cared about when here. I try to maintain contact, I try to remain friends with those people but they just drifted away and things changed. Needless to say it was heartbreaking And not something that I expected but it's true. Now I live in Oklahoma and I have met a couple people I would like to be friends with but they are so predisposed with other things that a normal friendship just can't transpire It's not that we don't like each other it's just I guess the older you become the more exhausted you become of people but I still wish I had a few friends that I could hang with here and there that didn't live too far. So I'm very sorry to hear how you feel but you're not alone in that mindset i'm right there with you Sure I have a few people I can talk to online once in a while but sometimes it seems like me talking to them is a burden to them.

 

[an_alias]

I'm starting to think all the men on this site who say they have no friends did it to themselves and are assholes irl. You saw that this guy wants to rape women, and still responded to him anyways.

i'm not familiar with this specific user but I wholeheartedly agree that this site has a massive incel culture problem and suicidality doesn't dismiss that; we're all in the same boat, how should your depression make you any less reprehensible for talking about women like that? Thanks for standing up to it, it's been pissing me off for the whole time I've been on this site

 

[SaintJosifStalin]

Yeah dude, me too. For me it has actually been like 7 years that I've been isolating. I quit social media a long time ago. Just joined SS so seeing how this goes.

 

[katara]

(Not defending rape) You don't know any of these people so don't be entitled to put your social morality into them, do you check the whole profile of someone before approaching them? Like a whole background research to see if they're problematic to you? Because the common person doesn't, they read a post and send support, end of story. Have a little empathy before making other feel worse than they do, and go against the one that ACTUALLY SAID IT, instead of a random nice guy.

You could've dm'd me but everyone keeps commenting here pushing his post higher so clearly none of you care. I barely get any responses on my posts but all of u gladly send your empathy to the rape guy. I don't care if you guys feel worse for being called out, how do u think women like me feel coming online and seeing it? Go ahead and befriend him. Show up to his house too I think you should give him a chance. Maybe he's a nice guy too.

 

[Silver The Hedgehog]

Na he was on here talking about wanting to rape Ukrainian women

wait do you have a screenshot thats scary