Venting I have never dated and will die alone

[Morte]

This is just an excuse for emotionaly immature people. If you really love someone then you'll help them through anything, no matter how bad it is. Forcing people to fix themselves single handedly until they'll "qualify" enough to go into the dating world is the most awful thing to do ever. Especially because I see people in a bad mental state get into relationships all the time, and they are doing just fine. Getting a partner helps a lot, and everyone who says it's not gonna fix anything is just lying to themselves.

I share this sentiment. If someone isn't willing to be with you at your worst, then they don't deserve you at your best or at any other time. Those who truly love, will love unconditionally. I think couples who break apart because of circumstances, only loved the comforts.
I would rather be alone forever than share my time with a fake relationship.

 

[Still here]

What I have experienced in relationships is not to expect any reciprocation. No matter how much you give you can never expect the same in return and the moment there's any effort involved, they leave. As a result, I have lost faith in trying to find a partner or even date.

You're right... I believe relationships have to be two way traffic,..

meaning that we both put in the effort to improve it and make it better, but this day and age we are living in you might almost find yourself in a one sided relationship where you are the one doing all the stuff initiating convos,proposing dates,giving money and etc...

And this normally rests on the shoulders of the guy/boy while the other part is just dong nothing to work on the rltnshp... It's so sad tbh...

 

[MyShadow]

You're right... I believe relationships have to be two way traffic,..

meaning that we both put in the effort to improve it and make it better, but this day and age we are living in you might almost find yourself in a one sided relationship where you are the one doing all the stuff initiating convos,proposing dates,giving money and etc...

And this normally rests on the shoulders of the guy/boy while the other part is just dong nothing to work on the rltnshp... It's so sad tbh...

I completely agree, sadly my experience falls in line with what you describe above.

 

[cemeteryismyhome]

I would desperately love to be alone. Privacy. No complications.