I have met a new woman from an app... we text the whole fucking day

[noname223]

She is again teacher. She is closer than the last teacher considering where she lives. I have met her on a certain app where frustrated men mocked me for my post. But several women were interested and texted me. One of them told me instantly she has no interest in dating a college student. With the second one I am texting so freaking much since yesterday. Today a third woman wanted to start texting with me because she liked my post (the post men mocked me for). And I told her I have a guilty conscience texting with her because I feel like it gets serious with the second woman. But this is also only one reason. I feel like I simply don't have the capacity anymore. It is so hot. I sleep so bad because of the heat. I think strategically that's a mistake. The disappointment just will hit harder. But really. I cannot text more. I am addicted to texting but it gets crazy. I hope she does not have borderline (Again) This would be really insane statistically. I might be paranoid though. But two of the three last women I dated had borderline. And I suspected it in the third one. I am really scared to become psychotic. I tend to become paranoid when I meet new women. It is important to postpone it as long as possible. Many are pretty scared witnessing me becoming paranoid.

Many things remind me of the last teacher I dated. There are some similarities. But please don't become psychotic about that. I think we match pretty well thus far. Don't get your hopes up too high. If I become psychotic and ruin it I will be pretty suicidal. She wants to phone with me someday. I will take a benzo beforehand. When I phoned the last time with the other teacher I dated I got really really paranoid.

I text with another person too. But mostly about mental health. And I don't even know the gender of that person.

It is so fucking hot where I live. It is a real pain in the ass.

I will update this thread probably. And vent about my suicidality if I fuck it up. This will break me fully.

 

[derpyderpins]

Bro at minimum props for continually getting in the door for new opportunities. I get that you are discouraged but overall you're doing well.

Hope you can fight the heat. This may be weird but you sound overheated, lol, like posting in English is a little tougher today.

 

[noname223]

Bro at minimum props for continually getting in the door for new opportunities. I get that you are discouraged but overall you're doing well.

Hope you can fight the heat. This may be weird but you sound overheated, lol, like posting in English is a little tougher today.

Thanks for your support. I highly appreciate it. I am too lazy to correct the mistakes. I am melting...

 

[CatLvr]

I applaud your optimism. Heat aside. My AC has not kicked off once today and I am already dreading the electric bill ...

Anyway back to the "girl" thing. Good luck. Me? I swore off men about 3 seconds after I said "I do" the last time. I just stayed married to him to remind myself how stupid I can be sometimes. Seriously. When this one leaves (and they always do) I am done with this whole "making a connection with other humans" bullshit. I'm gonna live the rest of my life in the peace and quiet of solitude. "Connecting" with other human beings is HIGHLY overrated.

Yeah, sorry to be a Debby Downer today. I'm gonna blame it on the heat, too.

 

[Pluto]

 

[noname223]

I think it is already over. Lol. Yesterday, we texted more than 150 Messages. Today roughly 40. And I don't know why. I think I am contributing as usual the most to these online conversations.

This morning another woman wanted to text with me. I thought I am unable to text more. And rejected her. I don't really regret it. I know I hate myself for being such an elitist but her grammar and spelling were horrible. (in her native language). I think on a dating app I would have swiped her left.

Again my hopes are way too high too early. And they fall pretty quickly. I wonder whether she will tell me the truth. It is more likely she will simply ghost me in a weird way. I have never shown such a behavior in online dating. Bruh.

 

[wham311]

I think it is already over. Lol. Yesterday, we texted more than 150 Messages. Today roughly 40. And I don't know why. I think I am contributing as usual the most to these online conversations.

This morning another woman wanted to text with me. I thought I am unable to text more. And rejected her. I don't really regret it. I know I hate myself for being such an elitist but her grammar and spelling were horrible. (in her native language). I think on a dating app I would have swipe her left.

Again my hopes are way too high too early. And they fall pretty quickly. I wonder whether she will tell me the truth. It is more likely she will simply ghost me in a weird way. I have never shown such a behavior in online dating. Bruh.

Because you're textking too much. Phones are for setting up dates. You're a busy guy with a cool life:)

 

[noname223]

Because you're textking too much. Phones are for setting up dates. You're a busy guy with a cool life:)

I have heard different opinions from women on that. Some appreciate fast responses. For some it is intimidating. And it "looks like" you have no life.

I think different people have different approaches. Idk. She just texted me back. Maybe I should wait a little bit? Idk at this point

Edit: I have to chuckle hard. So I waited to text her back. And she added a message. I am visiting my parents this is the reason why I am barely texting. She can read my mind xD She knew what Was going on in my mind.

 

[wham311]

I have heard different opinions from women on that. Some appreciate fast responses. For some it is intimidating. And it "looks like" you have no life.

I think different people have different approaches. Idk. She just texted me back. Maybe I should wait a little bit? Idk at this point

I think"the rule" is to be busy during day while you're working and living life and pretty much only use the phone to set up dates. This will make them more curious about you and want to talk more.

Match length of messages, match response times.

Corey Wayne on YouTube is someone to look up

 

[noname223]

I think"the rule" is to be busy during day while you're working and living life and pretty much only use the phone to set up dates. This will make them more curious about you and want to talk more.

Match length of messages, match response times.

Corey Wayne on YouTube is someone to look up

Is there really such a universal rule? Of course some women won't like you text so much. There was a woman I dated who rejected me for being too clingy. Others have told me they consider fast responses a sign of appreciation.

I noticed I tend to overthink texting when I try to Be strategically. In the end I think it depends on our chemistry and sometimes it fits and sometimes it does Not fit.

With the first woman I ever dated I abided such (imo) stupid rules. Not texting much will make her more curious. Tbh I think she Was pretty annoyed by my otherthinking and wanted to text with me more naturally. But for her this was Not the Deal breaker. Something Else Was it. But she wanted to text me more and stop with These stupid mind Games. She is now married to her best female friend who hated me. Lol.

 

[wham311]

Is there really such a universal rule? Of course some women won't like you text so much. There was a woman I dated who rejected me for being too clingy. Others have told me they consider fast responses a sign of appreciation.

I noticed I tend to overthink texting when I try to Be strategically. In the end I think it depends on our chemistry and sometimes it fits and sometimes it does Not fit.

With the first woman I ever dated I abided such (imo) stupid rules. Not texting much will make her more curious. Tbh I think she Was pretty annoyed by my otherthinking and wanted to text with me more naturally. But for her this was Not the Deal breaker. Something Else Was it. But she wanted to text me more and stop with These stupid mind Games. She is now married to her best female friend who hated me. Lol.

I just know that when I text too much and don't get hints I fuck it up

I do agree with you about being too strategic. It also fucks it up lol.