cyanidekitty
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- Jun 19, 2025
- 42
i can definitely relate to u on some things
especially not being lightskin or mixed makes it so much harder to date because most ppl nowadays will only date lightskins or will only fetishizes darker skinned women.
its so exhausting. + the millions of comments & opinions about how black women should act and how they do act and how they look and dress or talk or walk like oh my fucking goodness can WE LIVEE
& then on top of that bs you have ppl within our own community that— if you're alternative in any manner will call you whitewashed
anyway, you cant change your skin tone so i guess try to make the best out of it if possible <33
(the way i do is by literally making it known that i hate the people that have said racist things to me & tried to use that racist rude humor on me then they just never talk to me again because from then on im just rude asf to them lol)
especially not being lightskin or mixed makes it so much harder to date because most ppl nowadays will only date lightskins or will only fetishizes darker skinned women.
its so exhausting. + the millions of comments & opinions about how black women should act and how they do act and how they look and dress or talk or walk like oh my fucking goodness can WE LIVEE
& then on top of that bs you have ppl within our own community that— if you're alternative in any manner will call you whitewashed
anyway, you cant change your skin tone so i guess try to make the best out of it if possible <33
(the way i do is by literally making it known that i hate the people that have said racist things to me & tried to use that racist rude humor on me then they just never talk to me again because from then on im just rude asf to them lol)
