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demitriusmigsysvotf

demitriusmigsysvotf

It takes a man to be a man
Oct 1, 2023
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So, in one of my previous threads I mentioned that my SN was stolen. I found it. My roommate really thought that it is some sort of drug. And it's a really good thing that I can ctb on the day I planned. But later that day my mum visited me. And she came with a present. With a cat. And I fucking love cats. Now I don't know how to ctb, because he seems to really like me. Like, really. I don't wanna live him.

And the problem is that I can't give it back to her cause it's a present and she doesn't seem to like cats. I just don't know what to do.
 
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MyTimeIsUp

Perhaps I'll be important when I'm long gone?
Feb 27, 2024
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Why is the cat a problem? Look after the cat, it sounds like you love him already.

Be with your new friend, look after each other
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
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Maybe that's a sign. You can still keep ur SN but I think both of you (you and your cat) should give life a try together! 🫂
 
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Tommen Baratheon

Tommen Baratheon

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Dec 26, 2023
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I'd see it as a sign (even if it would be a black cat ;-).
 
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demitriusmigsysvotf

demitriusmigsysvotf

It takes a man to be a man
Oct 1, 2023
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Why is the cat a problem? Look after the cat, it sounds like you love him already.

Be with your new friend, look after each other
I'll try to be a normal owner for him. He is literally sleeping on my hand now. It's really cute.
Maybe that's a sign. You can still keep ur SN but I think both of you (you and your cat) should give life a try together! 🫂
Probably that's a sign. Now I have someone to live for
I'd see it as a sign (even if it would be a black cat ;-).
haha, yeah, probably :)
 
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MyTimeIsUp

Perhaps I'll be important when I'm long gone?
Feb 27, 2024
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I'll try to be a normal owner for him. He is literally sleeping on my hand now. It's really cute.
I love cats. This is so adorable! There's your new reason to live. He's relying on you to take care of him, so stick around, he needs you!

When you feel crappy, talk to him, and cuddle him. Trust me, he will make you feel better. Cats can sense things

I'm so happy for you.

All the best ❤
 
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KillingPain267

KillingPain267

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Apr 15, 2024
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I'll try to be a normal owner for him. He is literally sleeping on my hand now. It's really cute.
Awww 🥰 This makes me consider getting a cat. If it weren't so damn expensive where I live!
 
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thatisitguy

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Jul 11, 2024
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Whatever life problems you have are not going to be fixed by a cat. I've made the bad choice of looking for some sign from some higher power that things were going to be okay and guess what - most of the time it's all bullshit and things got worse because I wasn't proactive.
 
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demitriusmigsysvotf

It takes a man to be a man
Oct 1, 2023
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I'll try to be a normal owner for him. He is literally sleeping on my hand now. It's really cute.

Probably that's a sign. Now I have someone to live for

haha, yeah, probably :)
But now it's even harder for me to think bout ctb.
I love cats. This is so adorable! There's your new reason to live. He's relying on you to take care of him, so stick around, he needs you!

When you feel crappy, talk to him, and cuddle him. Trust me, he will make you feel better. Cats can sense things

I'm so happy for you.

All the best ❤
Thank you so much for your words. I'll take care of him
Awww 🥰 This makes me consider getting a cat. If it weren't so damn expensive where I live!
Yeah, as I found out they are expensive. Fortunately, I got a clever cat. Even though he's going to be 2 months in August, he's already understanding what I say to him and etc
Whatever life problems you have are not going to be fixed by a cat. I've made the bad choice of looking for some sign from some higher power that things were going to be okay and guess what - most of the time it's all bullshit and things got worse because I wasn't proactive.
At least I could forget bout the problems w him. Sorry for your experience
 
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Cress

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Oct 15, 2023
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Yeah maybe as others have mentioned it's worth postponing your CTB and spending time with the cat? You don't have to throw out your SN you can always package it up and wrap it up airtight and store it In a drive place preferably were mold is unlikely to accumulate. It will remain potent for a long time you don't have to worry.

You can enjoy your life and spend time with the cat for however long or short you want that to be. Take care of yourself buddy and your cat.
 
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