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You shouldn't care. If they weren't there during your suffering, they shouldn't be there in your posthumous memories either.
A part of me feels like this. Despite them claiming otherwise and rewriting history, their sheer and cruel toxicity in a period of extreme vulnerability a decade ago had severe long lasting consequences on me. Their solution was to double down when they weren't simply being dismissive.
I hear you, as soon as you said rewriting history I felt I know the kinds of parents they are, but it is what it is ig
Yeah, Im already living according to what they feel and want, my life isnt even mine anyway. I SI to feel some level of control, but I've never had guts to actually follow through. If I tell this to people irl especially my parents all they are gonna do is call me selfish and then be a little bit sad and the next day they are gonna pretend I'm ok again. They keep thinking that Im doing it to emotionally manipulate them and to avoid a stressful situation in life , they actually made fun of me multiple times for having mental breakdowns over it. So yeah fuck them, its your life you get to decide what to do with it.
