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hopelessandconfused

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Jun 12, 2022
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I just want to have a good life together but everything is making it impossible. I've been living with him in his country for the past year but in the autumn I have to return to my home country for school. Where I'm from the unemployment situation is very bad right now, and my partner doesn't want to move with me unless he can find a job. So if I have to go and he doesn't want to I feel like we will surely break up, we have been arguing so much and we're both constantly in a bad mood. But I have to go finish my studies or for the rest of our lives we will have to be working 2 jobs just to make ends meet, it's not like I want to be separated. And he's my only reason to live, if I have to be alone again I can't even take care of myself, even eating or showering is too difficult, let alone graduating. I'm so lost and don't know what to do, everything is hopeless.
 
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dontaskmewhatithink

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May 15, 2025
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I was in a similar situation once. Went long-distance for a year. If you truly love each other, it'll work out. It did for me. Best of luck.
 
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