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Volatile

Volatile

God
Jun 18, 2018
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That's essentially been my 20s. I feel socially retarded and akin to a leper
 
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Jokes on you I was a hikikomori for more than 18 years
 
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No Future

No Future

No One
Aug 6, 2018
96
Bit by bit. Start slow, and engage with people in person when you can.

Interactions don't have to be long, but enough that you acknowledge someone, and are acknowledged by them. Sounds simple, but a lot of us know anxiety denies a lot of simple pleasures and interactions. It's tricky, and definitely a bit scary when you've been isolated for so long.

Becoming socially functional again is like building an atrophied muscle. Push too hard, and you'll deny more progress than you're able to make. Recovery in most contexts is an uphill struggle. I think it's important to acknowledge that it will be difficult, but that it absolutely is possible to find and make common ground with people again.
 
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Justanotherconsumer

Justanotherconsumer

Paragon
Jul 9, 2018
974
Its always better in a group and more natural, for carbon based life forms. I feel alien.
 
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Nofaith

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Sep 16, 2018
343
I started to chat online for a few months and then started to volunteer.
The chatting online didn't work out so well.
The volunteering was okay for the first month but I wasn't ready no matter how much I wanted to.
 

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