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daemos

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Apr 26, 2026
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I recently started thinking about this, the previous generation(s) are the ones who built practically everything we know and have.
My question is really simple, how did they cope? How did they manage to thrive in such conditions of working 12-14 hours; having some rugrats and still keep pushing.
I feel as if this is such a non issue in modern society, everything has become so much more accessible and it's all so easy. You don't really have to struggle as much as you would have back then and still it feels hard but in a different way? Is there anyone who shares this feeling, like I know what to do but I just can't; I can't get started/continue, in another perspective it's really some bitch behaviour I can't seem to get rid of.
 
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Karrikin

Vocat aestus in umbram
Nov 3, 2024
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Roles, as someone once explained to me.
 
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CarbonBased

The Nothing
Jun 18, 2026
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I think many people of the current generation wouldn't agree that they have it all that easy, and in my opinion, they have some good arguments. Still, if we assume you're right and life is indeed that much easier for our generation, there is an interesting thing to consider. Have you ever heard of Universe 25? In a nutshell, a researcher put a bunch of mice in an environment where they always had every their need taken care of and observed what happened to their population. If that sounds interesting, I would suggest that you watch some videos about it on YouTube (there's plenty of good ones). Otherwise, you can read a very short summary of what happened in the spoiler below.
Eventually, the population of mice dropped to 0. None of the mice were sick and they had plenty of food, water, and everything else they might need. They either became overly aggressive (killing each other's offspring and such) or just isolated themselves from other mice until they died of old age
 
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divinemistress87

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Jan 1, 2024
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Alcohol and cocaine
 
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mjolnir

The One Who Falls From the Sky
Nov 15, 2025
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I don't think things have become much easier; the way people are exploited has simply changed, becoming quieter and more subtle. If today's question is, "Should I be doing more?", the question used to be, "Am I allowed to do this?" In the past, we were limited through prohibition; now we are pressured through possibility. The "you can't" has given way to the "you can," and it is precisely because we are told we can be anything that we carry the constant feeling that we are never enough.
 
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daemos

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I don't think things have become much easier; the way people are exploited has simply changed, becoming quieter and more subtle. If today's question is, "Should I be doing more?", the question used to be, "Am I allowed to do this?" In the past, we were limited through prohibition; now we are pressured through possibility. The "you can't" has given way to the "you can," and it is precisely because we are told we can be anything that we carry the constant feeling that we are never enough.
Holy fucking shit, the is some of the most accurate writing I have discovered on the internet.
 
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Ilfryth

No Longer Human
Jun 9, 2026
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People used to be a lot more religious/devout for one

I second the post above prohibition/possibiliies above but I also think that the absence of mass media, smartphones etc just made people live much simpler lives and be okay with things such as boredom or those responsibilities. They just didn't view other options as even possible
 
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charlieee

Chronically online
Jun 3, 2026
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I recently started thinking about this, the previous generation(s) are the ones who built practically everything we know and have.
My question is really simple, how did they cope? How did they manage to thrive in such conditions of working 12-14 hours; having some rugrats and still keep pushing.
I feel as if this is such a non issue in modern society, everything has become so much more accessible and it's all so easy. You don't really have to struggle as much as you would have back then and still it feels hard but in a different way? Is there anyone who shares this feeling, like I know what to do but I just can't; I can't get started/continue, in another perspective it's really some bitch behaviour I can't seem to get rid of.
I think that one of the things that have drastically changed is the access to information we have now.
Pretty basic answer, but now we are way more exposed to crap and just horrible news, which really takes a toll on people.
Before you just had to care about your problems and your family/friends. Now it's the whole world, all the time.
It can feel like there is no way out of all of this which could led to a loss of hope amongst other things.
 
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daemos

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I think that one of the things that have drastically changed is the access to information we have now.
Pretty basic answer, but now we are way more exposed to crap and just horrible news, which really takes a toll on people.
Before you just had to care about your problems and your family/friends. Now it's the whole world, all the time.
It can feel like there is no way out of all of this which could led to a loss of hope amongst other things.
Counter to this; most people you'll meet in the real world do not give 2 flying fucks about what's on the news, especially after their little covid stunt.
 
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charlieee

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Jun 3, 2026
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Counter to this; most people you'll meet in the real world do not give 2 flying fucks about what's on the news, especially after their little covid stunt.
I wasnt referring to daily news but like the big things happening these days. Idk what kind of people you've met but the ones I've met give more than one fuck about what's happening rn ( climate change and so on).
There's a few studies on this, about how younger generations are affected by all of this way more than we think.
Feel free to dig up, I'm sure you'll find plenty of interesting stuff.
 
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mjolnir

The One Who Falls From the Sky
Nov 15, 2025
221
The book "The Burnout Society" (2010), by South Korean philosopher Byung-Chul Han, addresses the transition of social control. The author argues that the current "performance society" has replaced the old "disciplinary society," changing the way we are controlled. It is an important read for understanding how social changes bring with them differences, even in the mental illnesses that predominate in each segment of society; perhaps this will help you in some way.
 
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daemos

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Apr 26, 2026
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I wasnt referring to daily news but like the big things happening these days. Idk what kind of people you've met but the ones I've met give more than one fuck about what's happening rn ( climate change and so on).
There's a few studies on this, about how younger generations are affected by all of this way more than we think.
Feel free to dig up, I'm sure you'll find plenty of interesting stuff.
I can promise you on a piece of paper, the majority of young people I know (I'm 19) do not give a single fuck about shit like climate change. (And there's nothing wrong with that as it's out of our individual control (and no working together does not work, some humans are simply trash and will not co-operate), and mostly over-exaggerated bullshit by the mainstream media.
 
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charlieee

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Jun 3, 2026
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I can promise you on a piece of paper, the majority of young people I know (I'm 19) do not give a single fuck about shit like climate change. (And there's nothing wrong with that as it's out of our individual control (and no working together does not work, some humans are simply trash and will not co-operate), and mostly over-exaggerated bullshit by the mainstream media.
Same age as you. I think it depends on the country maybe because I can assure you there's a lot of people my age and older that care a lot about what's happening around the world and are affected emotionally speaking. I did take the example of climate change but there is other things like geopolitical factors (especially if you live close to a sensitive area), or even the current economy.
There is a lot of other things that I don't have in mind rn but to sum it up bad shit are happening and we are seeing in 4k 24/7, it may not directly affect us but constant flow of awful news does affect your vision of the world and your mental state at some point.
 
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hurts2b

Wasting my time
Jun 11, 2026
88
Well. Some of them certainly didn't. Some of them did very likely kill themselves. Some of them died in labor or as babies. Not everybody had to survive. Just a large enough percentage to populate the earth. We don't know what the suicide stats back then were.
 
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Sphinxi

Disenchanted
Jan 4, 2026
167
Friction is conducive to developing meaning in life, I think. Struggle is inherent to the human condition, and absent of struggle many people simply don't know what to do with themselves. Not to mention community structures previous generations had
 
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witchcraft

witchcraft

it's too painful to live but I'm too afraid to die
Nov 27, 2024
223
Things were slower. Well, at least from what I know of my own country through my parents and grandparents.

Speed limits were lower; the only people driving around like Max Verstappen were young kids having fun (for better or for worse), not because they were psychologically tweaking out over getting to somewhere they actually needed to be.

For the longest time there wasn't even a "fax" machine; now we have instant text message, email, facetime. With perhaps the exception of emergency services and doctors (idk for sure), you could not be expected to be on call at all times by your boss. It was harder to get a hold of people anyway. It was more understandable to not be able to get immediate hold of someone because there were. no. cell. phones; now we have location trackers and software on computers at the office that report you if your mouse doesn't move for 15 seconds. It was normal for various business transactions or other interactions / services / communications to take two or three days. Places of employment were properly staffed, not running on skeleton crews to maximize the profits of some rich fuckwad. This is anathema to people now, who feel entitled to immediate answers and solutions even if it's their fault for waiting until the last second.

The expectation for everything was slower. You'd receive mail slower. You'd receive news slower. You'd get answers slower. People weren't tweaking out about how their one-day delivery wasn't able to make it.

Society is now constantly on figurative meth. That's the pace of life today. Everything is now now now now now. This is all the price of "convenience." Does it seem worth it? Not to me. Squeeze more out of every day, gotta squeeze more, because I'm being squeezed, so to compensate I need to squeeze others, and they need to squeeze, we all need to squeeze. Everyone is a sponge squeezed so tightly that all of its life, all of its water has been fucking wrung from it.

Instant gratification around every corner. Quick hits available everywhere. Fiending for that next dopamine hit. Everything precariously balanced on the mind of people who are strung-out. Advertisements forcefully gaping you from every orifice, your eyeballs, your ears, people constantly trying to get your attention, fighting for your attention, more content being uploaded to YouTube alone every single day than you could watch in a lifetime, a thousand streaming services, movies, books, games, a barrage of negative news, just a neverending assault on your mental bandwidth.

People are strung the fuck out even if they're sober. The treadmill of life has been put on fast-forward. Unless you're David Goggins, you will burnout, or tire and fall behind, or injure yourself. Or all it takes is one simple trip. One little thing to not go right and it's catastrophic.

So much of this stupid bullshit can wait. Should wait. Not unreasonably long, mind you. But a lot of things can wait. So much of this stress and pressure is completely unnecessary when you take a step back and look at it all. Too many deadlines are comedically arbitrary. The ridiculous things people file complaints about and speak-to-the-manager about. I was waiting in the drive thru for 10 minutes, unacceptable! This is outrageous! You should be ashamed! Who's in charge here! What's the corporate number!

At times, it is indistinguishable from someone on crack. I've heard it said that young people are zombified by their phones, but 28 Days Later seems like a much more accurate metaphor if we're speaking of societal critique. Everyone's rushing about like manic drug fiends.
 
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kouna

kouna

Soon CTB by fsh
Dec 14, 2025
121
Very briefly:

First of all, talking about 1st world (The west +Japan,Korea,Australia) societies, It's common knowledge that the current generation will have a a worse life than their parents.
I feel like what is missing is "hope". Ppl worked a bad job and endured a lot because that would lead to a better life, a house, some stability, education for their kids etc.
Now, the future looks bleak, and I'm talking about the economic future.

The current generation of young and middle age ppl, live a dead end life, mostly caused by the high cost of housing:
Obviously, there are a exceptions but I'm talking about the majority.

The cause: We left the gold standard in 1971 and then it continued with the Economic liberalization of the 80s that is on going.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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Looking at my Dad and Grandparent's generations- they were far more compliant. They didn't seem to even question- why should I work a 40+ hour week? Why should I keep the house and garden well kept? Why should I look after my parents? My Dad's 80 and he's still struggling like mad to keep everything pristine because: 'he has to'. In his own words.

I think they also had better diets- less processed food and less convenience all round. People would walk to the shops and carry it home, walk to work, walk on the school run. So- I think physically- they were probably fitter.

I'm not so sure they did 'cope' though. I remember seeing documentaries about drugs like Thalidomide that were (tragically) used by house wives to try and cope with stress I assume. It seems like they were on all sorts of drugs to try and cope- stimulants, tranquilizers, benzos.
 
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never mind me

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Nov 7, 2022
186
I don't think that life is easier now than it was for the generation before me. At least not in general. What is easier now is life for women as they are less disadvantaged than in earlier times and I'd also say that nowadays it is easier to get help from social services, if you suffer abuse as a minor. But regarding the possibility to attain a good standard of living, if coming from a poor background things are certainly much harder now than they were 30 or 40 or 50 years ago.
Of course, if you compare life now with life 80 or 100 years ago or even longer then life today is easier. However, I wouldn't say that earlier generations were dealing better with difficulty. The suicide rate was a lot higher a few decades ago and excessive alcohol consumption was also a lot more prevalent.
Of course it all depends on where you live. I am sure there are countries where life indeed got a lot easier in the last 30 or 50 years, but this is not true for my home country.
 
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itsgone2

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that generation wasn't competing with the entire world for work. Activist investors, private equity, internet, mass migration…. none of that existed.

My father was not rich. But had a house, three kids, 4 cars, worked on a 5th and we took annual vacations. My mom didn't work. All of that is gone.
 
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kouna

Soon CTB by fsh
Dec 14, 2025
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that generation wasn't competing with the entire world for work. Activist investors, private equity, internet, mass migration…. none of that existed.

My father was not rich. But had a house, three kids, 4 cars, worked on a 5th and we took annual vacations. My mom didn't work. All of that is gone.
This is very true, especially for Americans, While Europe and Asia were rebuilding after WW2 or were under authoritarian governments (Communist or extreme right) the US had a great run.

For some countries the past 30 years have been very good: China and South East Asia, Eastern Europe, parts of Latin America, some of the Middle Eastern countries....

Some benefited from Globalization, others not.

Me, living in an EU country, I feel like up to 2008-2009 we had a good run. After the 2008 financial crisis, there has been inflation on basic needs (housing, energy, food) without an equal inflation of wages, and after covid it became even worse. It's just basic economics, it's nothing strange. The flow of money is always towards the rich (those who have assets). the more money in the system (inflation) the more money flow towards assets.
Basically, prices of goods and equipment (fixed assets) have been kept low because of China (we are starting to see it now on EVs) but not everything comes from China:
Energy, housing, food, software, healthcare etc. In a nutshell, what cannot be imported from Asia or other developing nations has become very expensive.
 
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unloveable27

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Jan 29, 2026
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They had it better. No dating apps or hypergamy destroying the zeitgeist and nuclear families. No exporting all our factory jobs. They had enough money to be autonomous and actually got to live in the real one instead of this dystopic hell we will continue to grind our teeth to ashes through for nothing in return
 
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Sardenain

Just Existing
Mar 24, 2026
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With these kind of questions I thinks it is also important to remember that not everyone coped at all. There has always been people who have not been able to thrive in society and find meaning to their existence. Those who did not cope with the life usually withered away without leaving their mark.
 
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Mrs. T-800

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What years are you about in particular?
 

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