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Find someone you're actually in love with to have sex with, I promise you if you do it with someone you barely like it'll make you want to CTB even more. Also getting into a relationship with someone else whilst in this mental state isn't a good idea, it will sedate some of the pain you have but it will only harm you and the other person in the long run
That's not something to be suicidal over imo.....but anyway you do you
I am sorry to ask, does that ordeal cause you suicidal, and if so, do you think that counselling would help sex or violence crimes victims?
how people come to these conclusions is so beyond me. what the actual fuck lmfao
You are so arrogant... Its clear others could understand it but you...
Because many people care more about losing their virginity than they do the actual person they're losing their virginity to. They want to lose it all costs not caring if the other person is drunk or not ready, leading to coercive or forceful "sex." I think that's what the poster was hinting at.
thanks for the explanation of what a rapist is; i get how and why sexual assault works. my post meant: i dont know when it became appropriate to imply that about someone simply talking about wanting to have sex. imagine if someone posted about wanting to be in a relationship and someone said "well i hope you wouldn't want to be in one so badly that you force the other person to be with you via abusive methods, like blackmail, emotional manipulation, and extortion." it's an oddly specific and fucked up, borderline accusatory thing to say. very obviously self projection of an SA survivor, but that doesn't mean it's not completely tone deaf and kinda delusional.
whatre you even talking about?
sa survivor clocking in (
). the aforementioned message was very jarring and strange. there's really no reason to be so aggressive on a thread about a guy talking about being a virgin, because he didn't make any hints towards wanting to sa someone. people obv know that rape is bad and that you should only have sex consensually, so saying "i hope you don't become a rapist just to have sex" involves making a lot of moves in your head to get there.
In the same situation, I am very much socially incompetent and have issues upholding conversations with really either genders especially the opposite gender though. I have tried to correct it repeatedly but I just can't. After much contemplation I have decided I am just not meant to be with anyone. I have become too comfortable being alone anyways. I am too much of a chicken to unfortunately kill myself. I will just continue to live like this till i eventually die.
