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Fire&Ash

Fire&Ash

Specialist
Apr 15, 2020
390
Idk what to do. I'm currently going through everything I own and am donating and throwing things away. I have 3 tubs of clothes, and then my everyday wear. Idk if I should just donate everything from hair dryers, skin care, shower stuff, dresses, pants, and everything else I own. Or just donate it. Or just keep it packed away and shove it in a closet. I wanted to originally put it in a storage unit so it wasn't seen, since I live with my sister. I've told her and my parents I'm moving back in with parents so that's what I'm going with as I'm putting things away. But now I'm being super anal and neurotic and just want everything gone. But then what if I don't succeed? Then I won't have anything. And what if I do? How much of a pain would it be for my family to put things away and donate/throw away. What do people do when there family member dies, that is young. Do they actually hold on to things, does putting things away take months for them? What is the best action I can do, while holding onto minimal things?
 
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TBONTB

Paragon
May 31, 2025
928
Just my opinion. Donate anything you were going to get rid of anyway, just kind of de-clutter. But just keep putting the other stuff in bins. If you've got it all ready like you are about to move, it's not that terrible for someone else to donate it. The work is in sorting and boxing and touching very little thing.
 

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