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lunarpixels

lunarpixels

Member
Mar 1, 2023
33
Hi, everyone. I have this odd question, but I wanna know your thoughts on it.
So, I'm new here and I have a weird interest in death and dying. Maybe it's because of my depression symptoms or whatever, but these thoughts really help me in a way. That being said, I'm thinking about what I want my funeral to look like, what I want everyone to wear, etc.

So, I'm thinking:
  • brighter colors for the attire; too many people wear black at funerals, and I don't want them ruining my favorite color by thinking of a sad time with it on
  • cremation would be better if I can donate body parts to science, but if I can't, bury me the witches' way to shake things up
  • a playlist of my favorite songs will be on at the wake & funeral reception
  • no affiliation with the 'church' that effed up my entire life, as they can kiss my little cold ass when I'm gone
I'm wondering if I should write all this down and stuff in case it happens soon. Do you guys have any certain plans you're thinking about regarding the arrangements?
 
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stoopid

stoopid

from hell
Feb 27, 2023
183
No funeral at all, fuq all. Put me in the trash and leave me.
 
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lunarpixels

lunarpixels

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Mar 1, 2023
33
The one thing I never expected most of you to say is that you want nature to play a part in your memorials and stuff. Either nature consumes you or you want to be buried near a natural spot...

It's really poetic and peaceful, imo.
 
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theboy

theboy

Illuminated
Jul 15, 2022
3,264
No funeral
I will donate my body to science
 
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krxbs

krxbs

a bleeding heart </3
Jan 24, 2023
71
i've thought about my funeral in the past and it was actually sorta one of the things that motivated me to live. i do not want my corpse to be in the possession of my family.
 
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lunarpixels

lunarpixels

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Mar 1, 2023
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i've thought about my funeral in the past and it was actually sorta one of the things that motivated me to live. i do not want my corpse to be in the possession of my family.

Honestly, I agree. Them getting my corpse is a nightmare.
 
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spooky_kxtty

spooky_kxtty

Chaos
Feb 20, 2023
40
I'd want my body to be placed into a fancy black casket with white rose petals then instead of burying it, dump it somewhere beautiful like a forest. No funeral, just want my loved ones to move on as soon as possible and carry on to find happiness, especially my partner. Honestly I feel like if no one cared or was attached to me and if I just died they would be better off. I've burdened too many with just my existence.
 
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enough of this

Specialist
Jun 4, 2023
399
i've thought about my funeral in the past and it was actually sorta one of the things that motivated me to live. i do not want my corpse to be in the possession of my family.
I can understand why someone wouldn't want their corpse to be in the possession of their family. I think your and my relationship with our families must be very similar. And for me, I don't really care what my family (I have only one brother left), would do with my remains. My body is just an avatar for exploring this alien place. When it dies, my life will continue without and lapse in consciousness. Knowing that makes it so much more appealing to CTB.

And, more than by the way, Thank You for your lovely message about offering support and inviting people to feeling free to PM you if they need someone to talk to. You're a very kind soul. I may take you up on that. I invite you to do the same with me. ♥
 
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leavingsoon99

I'm at peace... Finally.
Mar 16, 2023
721
I won't have one. No one cares. Plus, I just don't want one. What happens after I pull the trigger, I have no control over. I'll be gone and done with life.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
12,873
I don't care about my funeral. After CTB only a cluster of atoms will stay on earth rotting and decaying while I will finally be free of all agony and suffering and hopefully be reunited with the universe as nothing or pure energy.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
12,350
I want to pre-pay for a cremation- no funeral.
 
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Aya&Dazy

Member
Nov 11, 2022
63
Yes, pre-pay for a cremation- no funeral.
I hate being centered of attention. Imagine on funeral, everybody just coming for you. Knowing about that is making me feel so uncomfortable already. Please don't do that.
 
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angel31

angel31

sause
Jun 14, 2023
255
Hi, everyone. I have this odd question, but I wanna know your thoughts on it.
So, I'm new here and I have a weird interest in death and dying. Maybe it's because of my depression symptoms or whatever, but these thoughts really help me in a way. That being said, I'm thinking about what I want my funeral to look like, what I want everyone to wear, etc.

So, I'm thinking:
  • brighter colors for the attire; too many people wear black at funerals, and I don't want them ruining my favorite color by thinking of a sad time with it on
  • cremation would be better if I can donate body parts to science, but if I can't, bury me the witches' way to shake things up
  • a playlist of my favorite songs will be on at the wake & funeral reception
  • no affiliation with the 'church' that effed up my entire life, as they can kiss my little cold ass when I'm gone
I'm wondering if I should write all this down and stuff in case it happens soon. Do you guys have any certain plans you're thinking about regarding the arrangements?
Like many in this thread I just want to be forgotten. If I ctb it will be terrible for all my family and friends, and I want them to suffer as less? as possible(i know the word is wrong but i dont remember what word is right lol)
So I want to be cremated and my ashes thrown somewhere away where they dont go. The idea of a grave is weird to me and I dont want to take away so much place. The best thing would be compostation, because for cremation you need a lot of fuel, but I think that was really expensive.
But I just want to be forgotten… so I dont really want a funreal:)

And I have written all of this in my suicide notes too, so it like should happen…?
 
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enditall222

Member
May 20, 2023
46
I don't want a funeral. I just want my body to be thrown in the trash or burn
 
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Unattainable666

Unattainable666

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2023
1,346
I've thought about this so often. I will be cremated and my ashes will be spread in the desert/mountains (depending where I die). My father was cremated and he wanted his ashes spread in the mountains. When we did that, there ws like an overwhelming feeling that he was free at last. This feeling is one I have. I want to feel free at last - free from pain and sadness. My only problem is I have no family or friends so I need to depend on the funeral home to do this.
 
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befree

befree

Time to do more enjoyable things _____Goodbye_____
Mar 22, 2022
2,585
There will be no funeral. My ashes will be scattered in the forest.
 
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krxbs

krxbs

a bleeding heart </3
Jan 24, 2023
71
I can understand why someone wouldn't want their corpse to be in the possession of their family. I think your and my relationship with our families must be very similar. And for me, I don't really care what my family (I have only one brother left), would do with my remains. My body is just an avatar for exploring this alien place. When it dies, my life will continue without and lapse in consciousness. Knowing that makes it so much more appealing to CTB.

And, more than by the way, Thank You for your lovely message about offering support and inviting people to feeling free to PM you if they need someone to talk to. You're a very kind soul. I may take you up on that. I invite you to do the same with me. ♥
Hey! Sorry for the late response, I just saw this since I haven't been getting on here as often lately. Thank you for the kind words, you seem lovely as well. I would love to chat with you! I'll try to get on more often so I don't miss sweet messages like this. Hope you're alright. 💙
 
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marshmallowfluff

Member
Jan 23, 2023
60
I think about this a lot. I think my dad would struggle to get closure if I didn't have a funeral. I've asked for family only and cremation. If anyone else wants to be there they can watch via video link if that's something that still happens post covid. If I am found in the right state, I'd like to donate my organs.
 
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jazzcat

jazzcat

dark eyed and miserable
May 19, 2023
138
I really really really don't want a funeral, but I won't say anything about it in my suicide letter because it might help my family get some closure
thinking of old high school classmates that I used to hate and who are doing much better than I ever did finding out I killed myself is mortifying
 
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mlcs

Student
Jun 11, 2023
140
No. I don't care about anything that happens after my death cause its pointless. My only goal is to stop suffering and I have nothing to do with the world after I ctb.
 
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seaspray

Member
Jun 13, 2023
30
I try not to think about it,because I get in touch with my partners pain.Just wosh there was a way to go that didnt hurt others,but its inevitable..
 
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StolenLife

StolenLife

Warlock
Sep 19, 2022
740
All that I ask of my funeral is for my abusers to stay far away from it. Though, knowing them, they would spit on my grave, so I guess that even in death I won't be safe from them.
 
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SolomonKado

SolomonKado

This is taking too long…
Jul 4, 2023
424
i already told my family I want to be cremated with no funeral. I'm falling apart and there's no one to be found. I feel if anyone came to my funeral it would be for them and not for me. Just a face value thing so they look like they care. Then my ashes will be taken to the mountains near a beautiful river surrounded by so many pines and evergreens and spread out. I want my resting place to be alot more comfortable then my life.
 
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Techef

Techef

Student
Jun 19, 2023
124
I don't want a funeral. There's only 1 person who may or may not come. Not to mention it's a financial burden.

Donating my body to science sounds great, but I don't want to risk getting found and rescued. Ideally, I'd like to CTB somewhere where nobody will ever find my body. Someplace in nature that's remote and beautiful, where my body will be absorbed back as nutrients for surrounding life.
 
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Anon1337

Mage
Oct 1, 2018
553
No funeral. It would be a bunch of people who never understood me and didn't care.
 
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