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wasteandvoid

wasteandvoid

ill never be what you wanted im your lucifer
Jun 20, 2023
122
I really do
 
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mortuarymary

mortuarymary

Enlightened
Jan 17, 2024
1,363
No. I hate people perceptions of it though.
 
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BlackMoon

BlackMoon

Peace-seeker
Oct 30, 2023
190
No, I just hate feeling I have to justify myself to others.
 
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binks23

binks23

Member
Oct 23, 2023
7
Not at all! But I HATE homophobes and having to hide myself around them
 
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DinoDaAltaTCPCacaRt

Member
Dec 27, 2023
68
Yes if I were straight I wouldnt be here suffering that much, thats just part of my problems. I understand you
 
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Promised Heaven

Promised Heaven

Eternally atoning
Feb 1, 2024
695
Yes.
I can't say all my suffering would go away if I was straight, but I would be in a much better position than where I am now.
 
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DinoDaAltaTCPCacaRt

Member
Dec 27, 2023
68
Yes.
I can't say all my suffering would go away if I was straight, but I would be in a much better position than where I am now.
I feel literally the same 😢
 
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blacksorrow

blacksorrow

Member
Feb 7, 2024
7
No it's okay.
 
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Dliena

Dliena

𝚂𝚂 𝙼𝚎𝚖𝚋𝚎𝚛 𝙽𝚘. 43,53?
Dec 22, 2023
1,888
I mean you are who you are OP and I am who I am. There are ofc numerous things that I def do not like about myself but it's not my sexuality that is the issue.
Nor SHOULD it be an issue for any LGBTIQA+ but this world is bully savage and cruel so I get why you'd or anyone else similar feel otherwise.

And yes I get that I guess not everybody have asked to be this way perhaps I might be getting wayyy too ahead of myself here.
 
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Deleted member 8119

Warlock
Feb 6, 2024
758
Not at all, if something it's more exciting this way because I'm attracted to the forbidden :P And I really enjoy pissing off homophobes, I do it whenever I can. No matter their ideas, I'll be with whoever I want. They can't do shit.
 
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Kimlett

Kimlett

Student
Jan 7, 2024
136
It always breaks my heart to see a fellow lgbt person struggling. As others said already, the fact of being gay/bi is perfect and valid. Society and homophobe people are who inflict the pain. Fuck them a million times.
 
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Widdershins

Widdershins

Member
Dec 29, 2023
91
Actually, it's one of the few things I don't hate myself for surprisingly enough.
 
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Tired_of_myself

Tired_of_myself

Student
Jan 2, 2024
131
Being gay makes us have dilemmas very early on, which messes with our heads.
I wish everyone is well.
 
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restless.dreams

restless.dreams

Experienced
Feb 7, 2024
230
There were times when I felt guilty about liking women, but not anymore. It's okay to be who you are, and I'm sorry if all the hate in this world has made you feel any different <3
 
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aubrey!

aubrey!

internet angel
Mar 11, 2023
149
i think there are associations that make me feel kind of bad.
like some lgbt people are very vocal. if i say anything at all about it i feel uncomfortable because i feel like i'm being too vocal.
 
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Miku _fanboy101

Miku _fanboy101

Rahhhh
Oct 23, 2023
56
I hate gay and I will never say that. It's disgusting and so gross, it's filthy to even think like that. I hope it dies because it shouldn't exist. I won't ever be a "homo".
 
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dragonofenvy

dragonofenvy

Wizard
Oct 8, 2023
674
I don't dislike the fact that I'm bi, I dislike the fact that I feel as though my failures in trying relationships "made" me bi. I don't think not being bisexual would've changed my life in any way. There's going to be homophobes and they can say whatever they want and I won't associate with them. It's that simple. I don't think blaming my sexuality for everything wrong with my life is even remotely correct. It might or might not play a factor, but it's not THE factor.
 
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PairOfAirJordan1’s

PairOfAirJordan1’s

Member
Nov 27, 2023
16
I hate myself for being bi and yet still being unable to find anyone. Literally batting for both teams and still losing
 
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slightoverlooked

slightoverlooked

Specialist
Dec 27, 2023
301
idk my sexuality but even questioning it makes me hate myself. if i am truly bi then i will never be able to live it bc of my circumstances. so im just in denial and tell myself im straight.
 
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ObscureSunshine

Member
Feb 20, 2024
16
No.
It's one of the things I love about myself.
 
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RedIris

RedIris

Member
Feb 23, 2023
15
Yeah i also do. Sometimes being bi makes me so digusted with myself. Dont plan on ever telling my family or friends not bc i care so much about their reaction but i simply dont want them to know another gross part of me. I was a weird kid all my life and now i have to deal with being weird on yet another thing. Yet another proof of me being a failure. I just want to be normal.

I dont hate other gay/bi people just to note, if someone is nice to me i am nice back no matter whoever they are. But when it comes to myself i really do hate it.
 
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Heartaches

Heartaches

Don't say a prayer for me now
May 6, 2021
270
No, I like being bisexual, I just hate how rampant biphobia is in wider society and some parts of the LGBTQ+ community. I don't understand why people have such a hard time understanding the concept and attach very negative ideas to it; the leaps some people will take to not recognize, invalidate or negatively protray bisexuality bugs my mind. Just let us be​
 
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Kasumi

Kasumi

tired
Mar 3, 2023
510
Why would I?
I'm the way I am because that's me.
If I wasn't gay / asexual would I still be me?

The only thing I'm sad about, or rather that's just a problem in my eyes is that it's really hard for me to understand straight cis people and vice versa.
 
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RosebyAnyName

RosebyAnyName

Staring at the ceiling for 6 hours
Nov 9, 2023
250
Yes, I'm a lesbian. I hate the prospects of sex though, so being straight wouldn't "fix" me. I wish I could be asexual, and I wish I could completely avoid being in the crosshairs of anyone else's sexuality.
 
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Living_Hurts_so_Much

Specialist
Jul 30, 2020
323
I do yes. Made choices. Regret many. And here I am still hating myself inside.
 
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Minsu

Minsu

♀️🏳️‍🌈
Jan 17, 2023
548
Absolutely not. Being bi isn't the reason why I'm suicidal at all
 
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