Discussion did you guys lose any loved ones yet ?

[mittymittens]

i lost my dad last year, it's been hard, sometimes i wish i lost my feelings permanently in some sick way so id stop feeling sad about it.

doesn't have to be death either, anyone break up, cut you off, or you decided to leave them, why?

 

[Ligottian]

Quite a few friends and relatives, including both parents.

 

[Realgar]

Yes, friends and relatives. The most painful deaths were my 2 dogs.

 

[itsgone2]

Before 14 I lost three grandparents and my father. Last grandparent about 10 years later. Brother, suicide, about 4 years ago. I think to many deaths too close together when young helped shape me, negatively. Not the only things that did but a part of it.

 

[ScholarOfDespair]

Yes, I have lost many relatives and the saddest part was that a lot of them were so young, the youngest being only 16 years of age.

 

[mittymittens]

Yes, friends and relatives. The most painful deaths were my 2 dogs.

what breeds were the dogs ? sorry for your losses

 

[Forveleth]

Been going to family funerals since I was 8 months old I always think it is the reason why I am so desensitized to dying and see death as a natural part of life. While most were extended family I did not see often, I do miss a few relatives that I have lost.

As for friends, I am usually the one to cut them off. We have all changed as people as we grew older and what bound us in friendship originally is no longer applicable, so I stopped talking to them. Do not miss them persay, more the nostalgia of when things were better.

Am currently so self-isolated due to my depression that I do not really miss anyone. I do not have feelings for anyone external anymore.

 

[MyShadow]

i lost my dad last year, it's been hard, sometimes i wish i lost my feelings permanently in some sick way so id stop feeling sad about it.

doesn't have to be death either, anyone break up, cut you off, or you decided to leave them, why?

Lost my dad, brother, sister-in-law in less than a year of each other.
I've reached the age when I've lost more friends and family than I will gain.
Been to so many funerals in the past few years, I've lost count.
So tired of the losses.