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Painless_end

Painless_end

Life is too difficult for me
Oct 11, 2019
794
Can't look myself in the eyes

Can't look people in the eyes too long
 
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randomz

randomz

Specialist
Nov 4, 2019
395
I am sorry to hear that. Is that some form of social anxiety? Have you went to a doctor or a psychologist?
 
Oyoy

Oyoy

Spatula
Feb 2, 2020
741
At least you don't stare. I find myself mesmerised and wanting eye contact with strangers. Its highly awkwardmaybe shading out would take the pressure off.
 
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mold

mold

local fungi
Jun 25, 2019
72
a tip that helped me when i was young and super shy, is to look at the bridge of people's noses instead of their eyes. i gradually began to get better at making eye contact!
 
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IrRegularjoe

Member
Apr 8, 2020
415
Isn't that normal. I mean if you don't know the person. I know you mean your self conscious about it though. I do it to.
 
Despondent

Despondent

Archangel
Dec 20, 2019
6,777
I avoid eye contact when I can. I even avoid looking at people (who I've known for a long time) and stare right past them some times. It's low self-esteem for me though.. and I feel horrible for doing it, but I just can't look them in the eyes
 
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puppy9

puppy9

au revoir
Jun 13, 2019
1,238
I look deep into their eyes; pierce into their souls. Just not your ordinary eye contact. :hihi:

You can try propranolol. It helps people with public speaking, prolly will help you with your eye contact problem.
 
The Dark Chaos

The Dark Chaos

Craving chaos..
Apr 17, 2020
215
Can't look myself in the eyes

Can't look people in the eyes too long
I can relate. Even I cannot look straight into people's eyes for too long. Mostly, I get distracted and lost whenever I talk to people. I just start staring into nothingness and people have to snap me back to reality.
 
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AcornUnderground

Mage
Feb 28, 2020
505
I've noticed that with this social distancing, there is a lot less eye contact. In the grocery, it's as if not looking at someone creates a physical distance, which of course it does not. It's been interesting to see. I can't get out much at all but the few times I have, I have noticed.
 

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