R. A.
If I must die, do not let them say I did not live.
- Aug 8, 2022
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With all the talk I'm seeing of safety lately, I thought this could be a useful reminder that YES, THIS SHIT HAPPENS ON THIS SITE.
New members should be able to be easily informed of this reality, and, if they choose, see the evidence. This site has rules and people break them. Some people are just shitty and may not get reported or banned fast enough if at all, because they break informal rules. Some only make their shittiness known in private or off-site.
Incidentally, I don't like the idea of people being on the receiving end of this kind of behaviour and perhaps feeling as if they have no one to tell or nowhere to go. We are all vulnerable, but we are far from equally vulnerable. Some of us are inherently more likely to be targets, or fall prey to predatory behavior, than others.
Those below should be enough given, but if you know of an incident and want to add so others can know it happened, please post a relevant direct link - whispers of events are one thing but I hope to bring together original "sources" of this info. This is a forum and we likely won't usually have sources outside it, but given we coexist here and here alone for the most part, it's mostly all we can hope for.
May 2020 - extreme violent threats:
sanctioned-suicide.net
August 2022 - all kinds of fucked:
sanctioned-suicide.net
August 2023 - inappropriate, unsolicited advances:
sanctioned-suicide.net
August 2024 - member attempts mass stabbing:
sanctioned-suicide.net
New members should be able to be easily informed of this reality, and, if they choose, see the evidence. This site has rules and people break them. Some people are just shitty and may not get reported or banned fast enough if at all, because they break informal rules. Some only make their shittiness known in private or off-site.
Incidentally, I don't like the idea of people being on the receiving end of this kind of behaviour and perhaps feeling as if they have no one to tell or nowhere to go. We are all vulnerable, but we are far from equally vulnerable. Some of us are inherently more likely to be targets, or fall prey to predatory behavior, than others.
Those below should be enough given, but if you know of an incident and want to add so others can know it happened, please post a relevant direct link - whispers of events are one thing but I hope to bring together original "sources" of this info. This is a forum and we likely won't usually have sources outside it, but given we coexist here and here alone for the most part, it's mostly all we can hope for.
May 2020 - extreme violent threats:
Dangerous people on the forum
Watch me get banned for this. Although this forum is a safe space for so many of us, there are dangerous people here who use our vulnerability to their own advantage. Even though they are a minority, they still exist here and still aim to manipulate or harm those of us who are unsuspecting and...
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August 2022 - all kinds of fucked:
How do I cope with not having a single friend?
I don’t know.. I’m fucking trying.. 21 now and I still don’t have a single friend.. I know I’m grateful to have a bf but honestly our relationship is going south.. I live at home and rn my older brother is going thought stuff, my other brother comes and goes.. they are on the phone talking to...
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August 2023 - inappropriate, unsolicited advances:
be wary of potential suicide 'partners' with an agenda
i'm getting sick of the fake intentions these people have -- pretending they also want to die with you when they clearly have something else in mind. be careful of people who responds to your suicide partner request as they may only be after one thing and that's not to die with you. these are...
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August 2024 - member attempts mass stabbing:
Forum member attempted a mass stabbing
sanctioned-suicide.net
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