Venting anyone just feel like a failure ?

[mittymittens]

like have you felt behind your peers irl / nonss members or like that they have willpower that you don't ?

i've been thinking of ctb but i don't really know life has just been continuously bad and bad and i know life isn't meant to be easy but not all of us are cut out for this.

 

[ScholarOfDespair]

Yes, I am 28 and all of my peers are way ahead of me. I wasted the best opportunity that was granted to me when I was 25 but I blew it and now I am stuck as a shut in NEET for the past 3 years in a third world country.

 

[claracatchingthebus]

Yes

 

[butimstillsoblue]

Absolutely. I have failed at life.

 

[ChildrensITV]

No, I don't feel like a failure. I am a failure.

And that makes me feel like one.

 

[itsgone2]

Yes. Completely.

 

[FadingSnowFake]

I feel like a failure, but don't see it so much as behind everyone, even though I am in terms of "achievements" (relationships, career, family). I just think I failed at my life personally, like I could've done better and failed myself, and those that matter.

But life is so random that we can't compare, and it made me think of the old $100 race video on social inequalities.

 

[Spite]

Yes, all the time. I'm 27 and I feel like I have the mentality and accomplishments of someone who is 17 years old. That is to say, there are people in their late teens who are far more successful in life than I am. I just spend every day wasting away and feeling sorry for myself.