NSFW Anyone else a virgin?

[celtistan]

In the middle east it is common to remain virgin up to 30.

 

[Trazyn]

newton = died virgins.

I'm surprised anybody could resist those apples.

I think every first time is going to be awkward. I think sex is more about giving yourself to desire and letting go your inhibitions, which would be difficult if it wasn't for literal chemicals in our brain pushing us.

Then again, i'm a virgin, so take what I say with a gigaton of salt

When I lost my virginity it ended with us both crying and never speaking to each other again. We were too young, rushed things, didn't have the trust and connection that was needed and didn't have the knowledge about our bodies, nor the communication skills to talk things through. I'd much rather have waited, no matter how long it took than have had the traumatic experience that I did.

I've been single now for almost a decade and haven't had sex since my ex, and honestly, I barely notice. The lack of companionship, support and someone I trust completely is far more hurtful.

 

[Cosmophobic]

8 years a wizard.

Not sure if anything happens at 40. I think I heard once that you become a wraith.

 

[closetoyou]

virgin here at 24. never had a partner either.

i used to be fine with it, but as im pushing my mid 20s, the realization that i shouldve tried harder is kicking me a little. im more envious of couples recently, when even a year ago i was fine with where i was.

i do think i want to find myself in a relationship but think im just so deeply fundamentally flawed that it wouldnt last and any love would be deeply unhealthy

 

[dumbnhappy]

I am. I'm 22, I was in a year long serious relationship and he wanted sex. Sex makes me uncomfortable, I feel ugly. So ugly that if someone saw me naked I'll be ruined and they'll make fun of me till I kill myself. I'm also afraid that having someone take my virginity will make me less, or make them feel superior for "taking" my virginity. It makes me feel gross, and makes me really upset. Can't say I'm not curious, but I dont really feel ashamed.

 

[BrownNoise]

I am, yes.

 

[shampoo sniffer]

Yeah. 34, female. I don't think I'll lose it.

It's fine.