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ykoizy

ykoizy

the dog that weeps after it kills
Jul 22, 2023
21
the one thing i always hear with having BPD is "your disorder doesn't make you unlovable", and its so stupid because everyone that HAS said that to me always ends up resenting me in the end.

its always the same damn phrase every time its getting ridiculous.
 
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Carrot

Carrot

Specialist
Feb 25, 2025
321
As somebody with BPD.

We still need to work on it. I met a lot of very patient people in my life, I may have abused that patience. Not intentionally, but I did. You still need to work on your illness and flaws, even if some have it easier than others.

I wonder how it would be in a relationship where both people have BPD, that would make it easier, I think.
 
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