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tiffany

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Jun 28, 2024
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I lost someone and I don't know how to go on
 
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ADBoy777

ADBoy777

Student
May 16, 2024
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It's never easy to lose someone close to you.
They say time heal everything, it's not worked for me but I hope this will work with you and make things easier for you.

Best wishes🙏🏼❤️
 
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Traveller12724

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May 14, 2024
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I lost someone and I don't know how to go on
It's okay that you don't know how to go on, the pain and grief will sting for a long time, but trust me with time they will sting a little less. In time you will be able to smile again, though at first you will feel like shit when you smile because you will feel like you are betraying them, but trust me the pain will become less and less and get replaced with an endearing memory of them. For now just focus on getting through the day, getting through the hour, and let time do its thing. I am really sorry about your loss.
 
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lostintheloop

Enlightened
Apr 14, 2023
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I'm so sorry for your loss . Whilst the grief never goes and time can't 'fix' things, many people learn to cope over time. You'll start to move forward not move on and build up your life around the grief. I know it's cliche but people often say the grief doesn't get smaller, rather your world around it gets bigger as you find things you enjoy again.
Yes for some people their grief gets too big and they can't live with it but many people do as it's something we all experience at some point. So give it time, give yourself a chance before giving up, for now you try to survive then you learn to live again.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
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I'm sorry for you loss. We're here for you! :heart:🫂
 
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tiffany

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Jun 28, 2024
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It's okay that you don't know how to go on, the pain and grief will sting for a long time, but trust me with time they will sting a little less. In time you will be able to smile again, though at first you will feel like shit when you smile because you will feel like you are betraying them, but trust me the pain will become less and less and get replaced with an endearing memory of them. For now just focus on getting through the day, getting through the hour, and let time do its thing. I am really sorry about your loss.
I do feel that way any time I feel a moment of peace I feel guilty and I don't understand it
what happened?
My only friend my best friend ctb
 

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