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Tenshi_vhc

Tenshi_vhc

I wonder what it’s like to be pretty….
Mar 20, 2024
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I kinda got my self in to a situation I don't know to get out of and it's making me more depressed then I thought it would. I got in to a relationship to try it out with someone because I thought it could help me fight my sadness or something. Instead it's the opposite, I feel nothing for this person and constantly putting up with them is just so emotionally tiring. I feel so guilty for being so selfish, and I can bring my self to break things off with them because they are also in a bad mental state, they have told me multiple times that they would become even more depressed if I left them and I don't want to hurt them. I know I got my self in to this and now I don't know how to get out. Can someone please help me
 
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Harry Callahan
Feb 12, 2023
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you're not responsible for anyone's mental state. your partner is really manipulative for putting their poor mental health on your shoulders—that's just weird as fuck.
anyways, even if they weren't manipulative, the point still stands.
why do you have to remain in a situation that's bad for you? why is it that your partner's mental state is the only thing that matters?
you should break things off with them. you are not obligated to stay in a relationship and it's okay to put yourself first.
 
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