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Sadbanana

God doesn't care
Aug 20, 2024
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Don't let others define what you are or what you are not. People's opinions are not reality, it is just a shadow of a shadow. They see you through a filter and what they see is only a reflection of a passing fragment of you. You might be trying to communicate to them who you are at the core, but the deepest things can't be put to words, they can always distort it, they won't know what you know, you can't directly convey your experience and feelings to them, but that doesn't mean that you are what they think about you.

Stop focusing on your image, stop doubting your experience and your intuition, believe in yourself, give yourself the emotional support you seek, it's not out there, those are just reflections, access it directly and use it to destroy those negative believes.

Other people play games that involve self worth and these games we are indoctrinated into those games without questioning them. Our survival often depends on them. But there is nobody that actually has the power to take it away from us, only thing they can do is to trick us to not give it to ourselves. These games are only games, they are not real, once the game ends it will just disappear without a trace, they are just dust in a wind.

You are not how fast you run, your bank account, how many girls you slept with or how others think of you. These things have nothing to do with our worth. Even deeper things like being a good person, authenticity or whether or not you have a need for validation still mean nothing.

You are embodiment of pure perfection and nothing external will ever change it. Everything else is just a passing, relative thing. It might feel like an emotional energy, it can feel like home, something deeply real. Find it and give it to yourself, it is your birth right.
 
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EmptyBottle

Friends with Aera23
Apr 10, 2025
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Thanks for those awesome words. Each person can have worth in themselves, try different things, and hopefully make themselves feel better.

Of course whether the day is good, bad, or neutral will depend both on ones choices and other factors... though, for better or worse, life is finite, and those who live have some choice... what pages to click, what thoughts to focus on and ignore.. etc.

Feel free to choose what actions you perform on your journey. I prefer not to make dangerously irreversible choices where I can, the risky choices can always be delayed by one minute, but once chosen, can't always be undone.
 

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